
Blogging As A Form Of Therapy 215
wellington writes "According to an AOL survey, blogs are more likely to deal with personal matters than politics or current events, and nearly 50% of bloggers see the activity as a form of therapy."
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Whew! (Score:2, Funny)
Whew. I breathed half a sigh of relief when I read that.
Re:Whew! (Score:5, Interesting)
The headline of the article says it all, and I'm glad those blogs people write about themselves are doing something good for SOMEONE. I find personal blogs that just constantly run on with someone's personal life to be the dullest reading. 99% of people do the same shit, feel the same guilt and address the same issues as all the other personal blogs out there.
And everybody feels different. Maybe they should all look hard at each others blogs and see how much people have in common.
Not that I'm complaining - the non-personal blogs, ones that write about technology, wider life, news, politics, and various other cool stuff makes up for the rest. As for me, I'll stick to whining on slashdot from time to time as my therapy.
Re:Whew! (Score:3, Funny)
Current mood: :-/
Re:Whew! (Score:2)
So there's two ways its got actual psychotherapy beat...
Re:Whew! (Score:4, Interesting)
Who's said writing about news/politics/life in general can't be therapeutic in one way or another? Hell, I rarely write about myself or my feelings in my blog (yes, I have one). Yet the blog entries are always about something else than they seem to be about: they can be either not-really-saying-what-I'm-saying, or just motivated by how I'm feeling at the moment. But just because I'm not ranting about, say, how lonely I am or how bad my life sucks (neither of these necessarily apply to me; just picking two random topics that seem to be quite popular) it doesn't mean I'm not trying to "get something out".
And I do belive I'm not the only one doing this.
Re:Whew! (Score:2)
My personality does not mesh well with other humans or society in general.
My blog is where I put the crap that would disrupt my mind and abilty to function otherwise.
It's vile, full of hate for just about everything, and lots of other things.
Since I write it down, I no longer carry it around with me and can deal with the stuff that I must deal with without that crap getting in the way.
It matters little if someone reads it or not, or if it says anything or not. Just the fact that it's not cl
Re:Whew! (Score:5, Insightful)
While that may be true for many blogs, you obviously haven't found the interesting personal ones. Let me tell you something - most fiction out there is just the same thing done in a different and interesting way. Hence, it it is the same with blogs; they may all talk about the same overall themes in their lives, but the good ones make it either more poignant, meaningful, or somehow universally applicable to the reader (and therefore create a connection). Some can do this through language, others through their particular point of view, but trust me, there are good personal blogs out there. One that I read is so entertaining on so many levels (literary, humorous, emotional) that it's almost overwhelming (and I also have a feeling that the person is actually a well established writer - it's been hinted at in his entries). The thing is, this blog is just an account of his day to day activities, none of which are significantly more interesting than your typical individual, yet it's written to be completely enthralling.
Most creative writing classes always say "know your audience". What I think makes this blog so interesting is that while he knows their is a potential audience out there, it's not pandered to. There are no silly quizzes, "memes" are avoided, and the usual personal blog garbage is not to be found. Or to put it another way, he knows his audience is him, and *maybe* some other readers. It makes for some interesting reading.
Re:Whew! (Score:3, Funny)
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Re:Whew! (Score:3, Interesting)
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That's how I strive to make my blog. It's a mix of my daily thoughts, rantings on various chat boards, daily events, the photos I take, and a log and simple review of the movies I watch. My primary audience is *me* a few years from now, or when I want to look back and see what I was doing on a particular day should I need to know that and can't remember. It's a way family or
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Re:Whew! (Score:2)
I always look around and fume at how everyone is so damn me-centric. Astonishingly egoistic. Everybody wants what belongs to them, everyone wants their share. Some of this is a pure result of
Re:Whew! (Score:4, Insightful)
As for myself, I don't even find most non-personal blogs interesting, like you do. In general, the organization and delivery of content is much better from more established sources, like slashdot, NASA, ars technica, space.com, etc.
Re:Whew! (Score:5, Insightful)
If you have something to say, and an interesting way to say it, people will listen to what you have to say.
99% of blogs that I have read are poorly written, boring, and in a nutshell, sheer crap.
Re:Whew! (Score:4, Insightful)
You just did.
I do agree with you. I have thought about starting a blog (or even keeping a journal here or on paper in my desk), I never do, mostly because I can't stand to read my own writing (when on the topic of discussion). If I can't stnad to read it, then I'm not even going to expect anyone else to do so either.
Besides, therapy is what my shrink is for.
-nB
Re:Whew! (Score:3, Interesting)
As dry as many blogs are, wouldn't it however be interesting to read a blog from colonial US times, or Napoleanic times etc? Even if they are just inane day to day things.
I think that keeping a journal is great, electronic or paper. What I can't stand are people who are upset that no one is reading their blog, when no one listens to them at the office/h
Re:Whew! (Score:2)
Re:Whew! (Score:2)
While I agree, and I do have what other consider a blog (I prefer to just refer to it as my website), here we sit looking at each other's commentary on a particular topic.
Re:Whew! (Score:3, Interesting)
Slashdot isn't a blog in that it is a conversation. Think about real life. Having converastion is much more interesting than listening to one person drone on and on and on ad infinitum. Most blogs are like the obnoxious person droning on and on.
By the way- how is married life?
Re:Whew! (Score:2)
I appreciate the kind words.
Slashdot isn't a blog in that it is a conversation. Think about real life. Having converastion is much more interesting than listening to one person drone on and on and on ad infinitum. Most blogs are like the obnoxious person droning on and on.
A good many blogs that I hav
Re:Whew! (Score:2, Funny)
Actually, bogging will make you a better writer (Score:3, Insightful)
I find that the fitful, occasional posts I make to my "blog" help me remember how to formulate my thoughts into coherent paragraphs instead of incoherent rantings. You can lose this skill otherwise, for example if you have a job where you work with poor communicators or where effective communication skills are not encouraged or rewarded.
No one reads my blog and I don't care, it's n
Re:Whew! (Score:2, Funny)
Whew. I breathed half a sigh of relief when I read that.
Please pay $50 for your therapy. You didn't think this was free, did you?
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And the other 50%? (Score:2)
Re:Whew! (Score:2, Funny)
I mean, since when are women allowed to use the computer anyways, what with all the cookin and cleanin to do.
Writing in blogs as therapy. (Score:5, Funny)
Tue, Sept 20, 2005
Urge to kill growing.
Must paint town red with blood.
Sun is rising.
Hear birds singing.
Looking nice outside.
Ahh. just what I needed!
What a great day, better go to work!
Wed, Sept 21, 2005
Meter reader coming today.
Sweet flesh in my slow cooker.
Bread in breadmaker smells good.
Too good to taint with meter reader.
Mmm. Maybe I'll go to the store for some blueberry jam.
And a nice walk through the park while I'm at it!
What an awesome day!
Thur, Sept 22, 2005
They have no idea I'm watching them.
They're nothing more than scum to me.
To be decimated like germs.
Hrm.. hey Slashdot's new CSS looks nice!
Wait... argh! Still buggy!
Can't they do anything right?!
Must.. not.. hehe heh ehhhhhhh...
Today is the day I unleash my wrath
and appease my Dark Master...
Re:Writing in blogs as therapy. (Score:3, Funny)
No, wait. I'm really sure I don't want to read Friday's entry.
On the contrary... (Score:2)
Re:Writing in blogs as therapy. (Score:2)
> Week After Next's Headline: Blogging linked to Homicidal Tendencies
> Week After Week After Next's Headline: Slashback: Man Kill 38 Then Self
> Week After Week After Week.......oh you get the point.
Yeah, but if the 'blogger in question was Roland Piquepaille, and some of the victims were the posters of duplicate articles, would it really be so bad?
Week after Week after Week after Week: Jon Katz returns to Slashdot
Then again, maybe it wo
Re:Writing in blogs as therapy. (Score:2)
Week after Week after Week after Week after Week: Blogging linked to Homicidal Tendencies
Re:Writing in blogs as therapy. (Score:5, Insightful)
Re:Writing in blogs as therapy. (Score:2)
I dunno, professional talk therapy is little more than directed venting. It helps in the short term to realize that [parents/bosses/friends/war] screwed you up, but eventually you gotta quit obsessing on your history and basically get over yourself. Of all the talk therapy practitioners I went through, none seemed to want to do anything but hear me tell unpleasant stories. Never any solutions, just constant consciousness of the problem. Blech.
Venting in Blogs - dangers thereof (Score:2)
Re:Writing in blogs as therapy. (Score:2)
Wait... argh! Still buggy!
Sounds like it's time to make a batch of CmdrTaco Tacos.
I can see why... (Score:2, Insightful)
Now = Blogs
Future = Video Blogs
Re:I can see why... (Score:3, Interesting)
'That Is Soo 2002': Blogging
'That Is Soo 2004': Podcasting
'That Is Soo Right Now': Video Blogging / Video Casting
'That Is Soo 2020': Streams of Conciousness downloaded directly From your conciousness
'That Is Soo NEVER': Reading/Watching/Listening/uploading them.
Maddox had it right. (Score:5, Funny)
http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=b
Maddox has this much, anyway. (Score:2)
Hey, if you're so tired of this shit, pull the plug on your server.
(Wait, no. Leave the comic book covers [thebestpag...iverse.net] up. That's some funny shit.)
Re:Maddox had it right. (Score:2)
Blogging and Searching (Score:5, Interesting)
Re:Blogging and Searching (Score:3, Insightful)
So, say I'm searching for a local restaurant in Apple Valley, MN. I'm going to likely get a list of some (perhaps all) of them. It's going to include the address and telephone number perhaps and the name. Someone might go there and the food could just absolutely blow. They have just wasted their time and money on something that any num
Re:Blogging and Searching (Score:3, Insightful)
The problem with blogs is that they generally fall into one of two categories:
1. Well thought out and refreshing material whether it be code, commentary, or information unavailable anywhere else.
2. No unique content, just links to the first type of site.
It seems like pagerank would already eliminate the second type of blog so I don't see why its even an issue.
Not surprised (Score:2)
Posting on Slashdot... (Score:2, Insightful)
Re:Posting on Slashdot... (Score:2)
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Splogs (Score:2)
what about splogs(spam blogs). Blogspot represents a pretty reasonable sample of blogs. this random analysis [outer-court.com] puts splogs at 42% for blogger.com blogs.
are you that hard up for stories? (Score:5, Interesting)
Then...don't post them? Is Slashdot really that short on story submissions? I submitted a story for the humor section a few days ago about laser-scribed chicken eggs that will "fight terrorism", and it was rejected within an hour of submission.
Gave me the distinct impression the queue was full of really good stories. I mean, what's funnier than barcoding eggs with a laser, so terrorists don't fuss with them? We like lasers, yes? :-)
Re:are you that hard up for stories? (Score:2)
I thought that you had to be joking until I googled it. Link [sptimes.com] for the lazy.
Mod parent up to a six (Score:2)
Re:Another good one... (Score:2)
Like Microsoft Insider Bloggers? (Score:5, Funny)
There was a chart on the office wall about 25 years ago which went:
Project Life Cycle
I used to think it was funny, but years of work in various shops have taught me this is the grim truth. In effect the steps can be found within Microsoft, the first two where during the heady successes of the early days of gobbling up easily taken markets. Step 3 are the growing pains of trying to forge headway into existing markets against established competitors also the rapid pace of virii and worms stripping the veneer of the solid image projected to businesses. Step 4 is where the management and employees don't see the problems with the same eyes. Step 5 is the big JARBO [slashdot.org] reorg over Vista rollout problems. Steps 6 and 7 are Microsoft hunting down their own unhappy employees and sacking them for the failures of management. Step 8 is when complete outsiders from General Mills, Glaxo, Smith & Wesson and Toro come in and head up departments, over experienced insiders.
I don't work for Microsoft. BTW I don't work for Microsoft.. Uh, Steve, unhand my ch
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"Clip" blogs (Score:2)
I have had a site listed on clip blogs quite a few times. While I appreciate the effort that people make to link to it (and,
Re:"Clip" blogs (Score:3, Interesting)
I have no idea WHY they are doing this (they are still linking back to me though).
Re:"Clip" blogs (Score:2)
http://triathalonbike.blogspot.com/2005/08/heavy-
Really, no idea why they are doing this.
Re:"Clip" blogs (Score:2)
Maybe they are just trying to "test" their script(s)?
Whaaa?? (Score:5, Funny)
Re:Whaaa?? (Score:3, Funny)
Here's an idea (Score:2)
Not surprising (Score:4, Interesting)
As someone who has a long history of suffering from Clinical Depression [wikipedia.org] I know how healing it can be to be able to "bitch at an anonymous audience". Hell, just the simple fact that a lot of my close friends read my blog is a big help. The oldest form of therapy as well is just talking about how you feel, and a blog is certainly able to do that - albeit in a kind of one-way form, but none the less it gives you the power to ventilate your thoughts.
Blogs don't have to be grand on a scale. A lot of bloggers come of with some weird kind of delusion of grandeur, they write about all kinds of pompous stuff instead of writing about the really interesting things - and then they get bored and tired when they're not immediately greeted with a flood of comments about how awesome they are. Me, I have a little different approach. I write MY thoughts, and primarily it's just for ventilation of my windy head. If people like it, great. If people don't, then please move along, no need to submit a comment about how my writing sucks or something like that.
My blog often revolves around every-day things, or when the mood goes south I tend to write about that. If people aren't interested it's not my problem since I don't need to please everyone who reads my blog. I have my friends, and over the last year I've attracted a small but dedicated following who read my ravings and rantings so obviously there's something interesting there.
Re:Not surprising (Score:2)
Hmmmmm, I think the pencil did that first. I remember writing in my journal long before the blog existed.
The difference is in the audience.
You claim you don't care what your audience thinks, but you obviously care that you have one. Otherwise you'd write in a journal, or type into your favorite text editor.
So, why the need to perform for an audience while simultaneously saying you don't need to?
Re:Not surprising (Score:2)
That explains Mini-Microsoft's blog..... (Score:2)
Therapy. (Score:2)
Writing skills (Score:2, Funny)
Re:Writing skills (Score:2)
Wow! (Score:5, Funny)
How do I post a picture of my cat here?
slashdot therapeutic (Score:2, Funny)
I'm lonely.
not-blogging is therapy (Score:2)
I've been doing a "this is what I think about stuff" blog for a couple years, sometimes adding articles several times a week. But I recently deprecated it: turning off comments, deleting the bookmark to it, and basically swapping the whole thing out to disk. I've got too many balls in the air (so to speak), and taking the blog out of my day-to-day juggling act is one step on my road to greater happiness. I have books I want to read... and to write and
Details should be private (Score:2)
There have been many times when I've gone to interviews in the past or met with clients to have them told me they checked out my blog. Not that anything bad was there but some people write too my information for the world to see.
Many are a form of therapy for me. (Score:5, Funny)
1) Thank goodness my life is interesting and does not revolve around my cat (I like cats as much as the next man, but I don't replace the human beings in my life with fuzzballs).
2) Thank goodness I am no longer a hormone crazed teenager who is in love one moment and ready to commit suicide at the next (ah, those were the good old days...).
3) Thank goodness I have something better to do than cook up conspiracy theories all day long (if I read one more UFO blog or another blogger claiming to be a "Spook, I'll go balistic).
4) Thank goodness I have an occupation (while there are professional bloggers, those that post nothing more than rants about the bad employment market and whine about it all day long rather than look for work are not among them).
So... yeah. Blogs are theraputic. Often times, they can make me feel so much better about myself.
(the above is sarcasm and, obviously, doesn't refer to all blogs... so let's dispense with the flaming)
Re:Many are a form of therapy for me. (Score:2)
Good thing that I have real worries like bills and getting through college so I don't have time to complain about frivolous things and what other people complain about.
(All in good fun.
Re:Many are a form of therapy for me. (Score:2)
Re:Many are a form of therapy for me. (Score:2)
Makes sense. (Score:5, Insightful)
Re:Makes sense. (Score:3, Funny)
Hmm, TV or socializing with friends or family. You choose.
I think we humans need that kind of thing.
Yes, we do. Its a prerequisite to being "human", do a search or read about feral children if you don't believe me.
Re:Makes sense. (Score:2)
The other person(s) have to choose too, otherwise you'd have no one to talk to even if you wanted to.
Its a prerequisite to being "human", do a search or read about feral children if you don't believe me.
Why wouldn't I believe you? I voiced almost the exact same sentiment.
Re:Makes sense. (Score:3, Interesting)
The person who can admit it is stronger, I think. It takes strength to admit failures or weaknesses honestly - but those admissions allow for growth and wisdom. For some reason it is pretty clear that, as a whole, it is not good to admit failure. Politicians, for example, go very far
Surprised? (Score:2, Interesting)
I really don't understand why people make such a big damn deal about blogging. It's just an extension of journal writing in that it is published online, and as for it being a different kind of website, it is just a content management system used as a journal. Can somebody please tell me what the big deal is? Are the statistics
Bloggin vs. Slashdot! (Score:2)
blearging (Score:2)
Cheapest Form of Therapy (Score:2)
My fellow Slashdotters ought to understand this sentiment -- as we crank out these comments, we are venting, and therefore undergoing some form of self-therapy, and it doesn't cost a dime. What bloggers do is very similar to what the commentators in this space do. I write about movies o
In Victorian Times, Journals were the Thing (Score:3, Interesting)
Same need met, fairly similar concept, and in those times London and NYC had postal delivery five times a day, allowing one to share notes and such as well.
Mind you, back then that was the technology. This is similar in some ways, but not that surprising.
Next we'll bring back the Jet Pack as personal transportation device, or personal Steam Locomotives (we have a 200+ year supply of coal in the US, even if oil/gas are rapidly disappearing)
Re:In Victorian Times, Journals were the Thing (Score:2)
That said, what's wrong with keeping journals? (or diaries, if you will) Why be so presumptuous to think anyone else in the world would care to read your daily woes/rants? I would venture to guess that it
Re:In Victorian Times, Journals were the Thing (Score:2)
Why be so presumptuous to think that nobody else in the world would care care to read your daily woes/rants?
Not forced to read... (Score:2, Insightful)
All true (Score:5, Insightful)
However, out of the clear blue, my Crohn's Disease [wikipedia.org] came back from out of nowhere and I went from a leisurely vacation to a 5 day hospital stay complete with heavy helpings of shots, IVs and a naso-gastro tube up my nose and into my stomach.
Feeling miserable, I started up a blog just to chronicle all of this and joke around about some of these truly awful things that were happening to me. As it turns out, it's the most efficient way to share what's going on with the people who care about what's going on and I don't have to write/tell the same stories over and over again.
As it's taken a life of it's own, I've found that it's not only helping my friends and family understand what's going on, it's helping me work through everything as well.
And as for whether or not you agree or disagree with this, it really doesn't matter. A personal blog/site is just that...personal. No one asks anyone else to read these types of things unless the author is going out and setting up Adsense accounts and creating Technorati profiles. Furthermore, it is the individual's choice to read something or not...
If Blogging is a Form Of Therapy... (Score:2, Funny)
Expression IS therapy. (Score:2)
There's no doubt in my mind that this is true for others as well.
Keeping things bottled up is very stressful and frustrating, and for me, those things are very paralyzing.
exhibitionism (Score:2)
Re:exhibitionism (Score:2)
Its called Journaling (Score:2)
Did they forget stalking? (Score:2)
Exposing yourself to your billion or so friends (Score:3, Insightful)
People may find it cathartic to discuss some of their deepest feelings on their blog. But sometimes they seem to forget that the medium they are using to express these feelings is the Internet. Blogs may feel like on-line journals, but they are journals millions of people can read. Indeed most blogs are ignored, but you never know what will catch on.
Bloggers perhaps comfort themselves with the idea that this is an anonymous medium. But in general the anonymity is illusionary unless you have a hackers skill at hiding your tracks. And even then you have to be careful about posting recognizable detail. The criticism of your spouse or your boss may come back to haunt you. It has with many people.
When ever you post material on the Internet in an anonymous forum you should consider if you can live with it being connected back to you. If you might find this unpleasant, but not horrible, then perhaps it is worth the risk. But if you're blogging about your adventures with sex workers, drugs or the stupidity of your boss and management chain, then you may pay a price if you become known as the author.
It worked when my daughter was in the hospital (Score:4, Insightful)
Anyway, blogging every night when I got home was very relaxing. It helped me to put the day in perspective and look back to see her progress that was difficult to see hour by hour. It also had two unforeseen benefits: I have a nice detailed record of the first 3 months of my daughter's life, and we didn't have to answer the same difficult questions over and over from concerned family members. It's far from great literature, mostly just a factual account that a stranger would find boring, but for me and my family it is priceless.
Explains 90% of blogs. (Score:2)
NEWS: Pollsters overgeneralize their findings! (Score:2)
That being said, I don't know how applicable the results of this poll are to blogging in general. I read an awful lot of political and technology blogs and not a single one of them is on AOL. In
This isn't new (Score:3, Interesting)
Re:SURVEY and STUDY are NOT THE SAME (Score:2, Funny)
Jesus, as an AOL user, also considers blogging to be a form of therapy? Wow! ;)