You are a textbook case of distraction and obfuscation... and projection.
We tell the temperature by creating an 'absolute' zero. 0 is cold, 100 is hot. Where is the problem?
Since you didn't see it the first time, I will repeat it for you: ...if you voted to restrict the the right to a marriage contract to a specific group of people, then you are a bigot... There is no 'smear' in that statement. It is a mathematical truth. As absolute as man can produce. I'm not sure what the term is when it's systematic in a society (meaning you can be doing it unconsciously, which is usually the case, and so explains the defensiveness on your part), so 'bigot' has to do.
I cheerfully voted for Virginia's Constitutional Amendment that marriage means what it means a few years ago.
This is what I'm talking about. Your denial notwithstanding. The truth is not a smear.
Loving vs. Virginia - Look it up. It's not much of a stretch.
You keep on thinking I'm 'accusing' you of something (again the projection). That's not true. I'm simply reminding you that you are a follower of culture, acting as any other social animal does. We all motivated by exactly the same thing.
Actually I think you're reading too much Rand Paul, and not even the good stuff.