I have always respected your opinions but if you think I had any of what I have handed to me on a silver platter then you are very much mistaken. I've had opportunities and even a bit of help along the way, sure, and I'm grateful for these. In particular I'm grateful to a couple of folks I met online who encouraged me and even gave a chance to prove myself, way back when. But I'm the one who put in the work to take advantage of those opportunities. I'm the one who spent 3-4 years sleeping on other pepole's floors and living on ramen and PBJs, and keeping my nose to the grindstone 70+ hours a week to make it happen.
I had other, easier opportunities when I was younger, which I wasted. Had I been a little wiser then, things would have been much simpler later on. Well, paying for that fuckup was part of the overhead, but I pay for that I did.
The really good part about it is that I can look at what I've got now and know that I *earned* it, and even if I end up homeless again tomorrow, that fact is something that nobody can take away from me, not even the All-Knowing Jedidiah.
Just because someone doesn't piss and moan constantly about the adversities they've faced doesn't mean they've not had them.
Cheers.