Increasingly, whenever I fly now, I only fly with airlines that let me take hand luggage ("carry-on" in certain countries) enough that I never need to check any bag into the hold.
I think that the nonsense of being separated from your bag, having to queue up to have it weighed and roll off into the airport, and it NOT being ready by the time you get to the terminal at the other end needs to get into the 21st century (especially when it has a habit of going missing, when anyone can pick it up, when things get damaged, etc.). Not even counting when a passenger has to be offloaded, when you have to deal with musical instruments, bikes, wheelchairs and prams, and all the other hindrances to doing this (and all the damage/loss those items routinely incur).
It literally makes far more sense, if I wanted to do this, to post my luggage a week early and receive confirmation that it's arrived at the destination before I even THINK about setting foot on a plane. Some companies actually offer that as a rival service and you know what... that's a better idea entirely.
But until that becomes mainstream the whole nonsense of "pulling what you hope is *your* undamaged luggage off a conveyor" needs to stop. And CHARGING you for the privilege? Pff. Just fill the hold with cargo instead, you'll make more money, or just make planes and airports without that facility at all
For holiday, I take hand luggage with me on the plane. For anything more, I arrange to not need luggage the other end. I'd honestly rather arrive with just me, my passport and a credit card and buy some clothes the other end if it comes to it, just so I can not have that hassle/cost and can just walk out the other end after a long flight.
I tend to fly short-haul with British Airways. They allow two hand luggages, which is more than enough for everything I would ever usually bring. They've got the "relaxed flight" down to a fine art on their short haul flights. Ignoring all the long-outdated airport nonsense, I get on the plane, I get to my seat, I usually get offered a food/drink for free, I don't get advertised at (but, hey, can we stop the bloody safety announcements, please, fffs), I can just put my luggage up in the lockers, and keep my laptop under my feet with some snacks and drinks and a book, and then we fly. And I'm barely disturbed, ever. When I land, I get my stuff, get off the plane and... I'm there. And I pay not significantly more than "budget" airlines to do so.
Air travels needs a 21st century makeover. It needs to be as simple as getting on a bus, as relaxing as having a nap, as reliable as it can be made to be. I'll allow the security, no problem, that's a concession we've made. But the rest? It's just dumb. And checked-luggage is one of the dumbest things we still tolerate. People don't want an "experience" flying, and if they did they certainly don't want the experience you currently get.
They just want to get to their destination country with whatever they wanted to bring, with as little hassle, in as little time as with the least cost possible. And all these things add complications, time and expense to what should be a simple journey with your stuff.