Or you thought it was ok to just take pictures of the good angles and not the problem. Or you were selling something weird, like the other guy complaining that software was opened and returned.
It was cast iron components (such as griddle, pot holders, etc.) from a gas stove that we shipped off. The parts were still worth good money and were in used but perfectly workable condition.
And how do you get "ripped off?" The actual problem with an abusive buyer is they make an unreasonable demand and threaten you with a bad review. That's what the dispute resolution is for.
I'm out the money for the sale, the shipping, and the eBay fees. It cost me more than just throwing those items in the trash. I don't get why dispute resolution would be of any use. I have pictures of the working cast iron items, they have pictures of broken ones they claim broke during shipping. Really? Cast iron, triple wrapped in bubble wrap, in a box, was broken during shipping? How hard to you have to hit cast iron to break it? But it's just their word against mine, and they have 'photo proof' (even though it could easily have been photos of their broken items they wanted to replace), so dispute was no help.
And then there's the "repeat that over and over again." Does that match up with an "0 for 3?"
Yes, I'm out as a buyer and seller. Then repeat that negative experience with other buyers and sellers, over and over again, and who is left?