It's funny, and more than a little bit sad.
I'm an American, and proud to be one. I firmly believe that there IS an American Exceptionalism in a number of positive ways. But as I'm growing older, I have to admit - we just don't handle being a superpower very well.
I thought the postwar era of 'utterly thoughtless American "we won the war" bullshit hubris' ended with their noisy collapse in the 1960s. - the era of dumping radioactive dust at elementary schools to trace possible fallout patterns, giving LSD to mental patients, or a foreign policy shot through with arrogance and amoral choices.
Now, it seems again that we're returning to an era where the folks in Washington again see themselves as beholden to no one, responsible to no one, and capable of absolutely breathtaking hypocrisy and conceit without a trace of conscience or humility (or, for that matter, historical perspective).
For those outsiders observing the US: please note that we are talking exclusively about the US FEDERAL government, for the most part. That is (ever more) distinct from the United States as a nation, culture, and people. Not to say that the US states don't cheerfully do this sort of stuff too, but they are more immediately connected with both their victims and the voters (who are often the same group) and are thus managed more closely.
Obviously we need a Federal government; but personally the advantages of a stronger one (and there certainly are some) don't outweigh the concomitant dangers. Some of us believe - as did the Founding Fathers - that the task of American democracy is about constantly and assertively constraining the Federal government (not to eliminate it, to preclude the libertarian strawman that always seems to be dragged out at this point) to limit their functions narrowly to only needful roles, and NO FURTHER.
Perhaps - lacking a strong federal government - the United States couldn't so easily assert its desires on the international stage. Perhaps we forego some of the 'macht' of a superpower. But perhaps that isn't all bad. That power corrupts is a cliche, but never is it more evidently true than within the District of Columbia.