Why have public relationships? Public internet relationships are a fad of fake, self-destructive behavior, like the way women dressed in the 1950's.
All of the LinkedIn requests I've ever received have been attempts to pretend that a relationship exists that is more meaningful than in reality.
Sometimes a large percentage of people do crazy things. Don't follow them. I have friends, customers, and business contacts who sometimes read and reply to only the first paragraph of an email, and don't read the rest. It's part of the nonsense of the times.
I told a dentist with a Facebook page that Facebook was showing an ad for another dental clinic on his Facebook page. The dentist just accepted the abuse.
The free open source
diaspora* social network software allows privacy.
This book is about the development of Diaspora:
More Awesome Than Money: Four Boys and Their Heroic Quest to Save Your Privacy from Facebook. The book is poorly written by someone with no programming experience and no interest in learning, but it does tend to show the difficulties of developing software.
Are you too happy? Is it uncomfortable being happier than everyone else? Facebook is the answer. Read
Facebook use predicts declines in happiness, new study finds. Or download the
scientific paper.
The first result in a Google search for
50's clothing and hairstyles says,
"Ever
ready to suffer for the cause of soft feminine looking Fifties styles,
after the perm, we still had to roll, curl our hair." A Wikipedia
article says,
"One
ingredient in 1950s hair spray was vinyl chloride monomer; used as an
alternative to chlorofluorocarbons (CFCs), it was subsequently found to
be both toxic and flammable."
Avoid the craziness you see around you.