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Sorry to hear that. (Score:2)
Just wanted to pass along my condolances, and hope that things continue to progress as amicably as possible.
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But thanks.
....Bethanie....
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I'm glad to hear you say it's a good thing (and I had kind of figured that was your perspective), but I just can't bring myself to say "congratulations" on something like this. How about "best wishes"?
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I hope so. Studies show the worst thing any human being can go through is a divorce- the grieving process for the lady who just lost her husband on Mt. Hood will be easier than your grieving for your lost marriage. Also, don't forget Kiddo and Squirt- they deserve to have *both* parents around even if you can't live together anymore.
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Even in the two weeks Ethan has been with us, I cannot imagine what life would be like without both my wife and I working to raise him. I pray that he will always have both of his parents, and that he nevers loses either of us to an accident or selfishness.
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Good Luck (Score:2)
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I saw it coming as well, and I'm sorry that it couldn't work out and the children have to go through this, but I also know that it's a LOT WORSE on kids when they parents try to stay together just for them and end up hating each other. B and I have our differences, but I respect her and if there is ONE THING I know about her, she's a good mother. I know that she considered the interests of her children very much in making this decision. B, I hope everything works out as best it can for you and yours in
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Its like deja vu all over again ... but at least now you're not making not-so-oblique references to it.
Definitely q "good luck" to everyone (though you're breaking the usual pattern, which is to wait until AFTER christmas, so as to get a bit more loot :-)
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Yes and no - stuff that's given as a gift is obviously something you can't fight over ... and the person who's being left tends to try to "buy off" the person who wants to leave by giving more loot, not realizing that this just screams "you don't GET IT!"
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I'm glad it sounds like it is on as friendly of terms as these things can be.
Just a silly post. (Score:2)
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....Bethanie....
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....Bethanie....
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Hey B (Score:2)
Hugs,
Pix
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I'll second this (Score:2)
Best wishes. (Score:2)
And after a while we expect you to hook up with Smoove B [theonion.com] for at least a little while.
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You forget that Smoove was loosely modeled on me.
Er, very loosely.
Condolences and congrats in equal measure. Take of each as you will. :-)
Cheers,
Ethelred
Best wishes (Score:2)
Not much to say. (Score:2)
well (Score:2)
and offer lots of
amicable is best if possible (Score:2)
I, for one, am SHOCKED! (Score:2)
Glad to hear it’s being handled as a positive, and I hope it works out as well as possible for all involved.
amicable separation (Score:1)
I understand there's more complications when there are children involved, but we hope things work well for you.
Give me a shout if you ever want to talk.
^_^
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The kids aren't actually that complicated. We both agree that having Hubby in their lives as much as possible is the best thing. And that I'll remain the primary caregiver is somewhat presumed.
But even that is flexible, as far as I'm concerned.
Thanks, RHK. I appreciate your support.
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^_^
gasp (Score:2)
loading trailers down on the docks (Score:2)
That said, it is always sad when one fails. Especially when one or more of the participants wanted it to and really tried. I guess it's the romantic in me. 'Cuz it sure is nice when it all clicks. Or so I've been led to believe.
I got nothing to offer in the "make it work" department, as experience has proven. However, I am pretty good at the "amicable divorce, get al
I hope for nothing but the best (Score:2)
Also, if anyone in the circle is surprised by this, they really haven't been paying close attention now have they? Good luck on everything working out between the two of you. I hope you both find what you need at the end of the tunnel here.
Faith (Score:2)
Such is life (Score:1)
Can't really say much more than that.
Good luck! (Score:2)
best wishes (Score:2)
hope everything stays smooth for you and i'm still sorry to hear things didn't turn arou
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....Bethanie....
hope (Score:1)
i hope the kids are able to understand enough and it isn't too tough for them.
i hope things don't get too ugly.
Ah, apparently I am stupid (Score:1)
In other news: numEligibleFemalesOnSlashdot++
Wow (Score:2)
I'm not on
Take care...
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I really am OK now. The heartbreak has been going on for a long time and by now the emotions have pretty much all been used up.
Thanks for the support; hope all is well with you and yours, as well.
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Hot Zombie Love [slashdot.org] was particularly interesting to reread with respect to that. A lot of people commented who are now in completely different situations than they ever may have expected to be.
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I've got a lot of ideas about it, but it's not yet time for me to publish them. After papers are signed and agreements are finalized, then issues will be open for discussion. Until then -- I am showing respect for the dead.
Oh, wow. (Score:2)
Good luck and best wishes to all four of you, B.