> Russia deliberately targetting train stations, hospitals, maternity hospitals, schools, apartment blocks, churches, and a whole host of civilian sites is perfectly good.
Again, with 100-300 drones every day, being jammed, shot down and/or hitting their targets, how can you have sure that all those attacks are deliberated. It is known that Russia wants to target electric distribution centers (they don't actually want to hit nuclear centrals), but being those targets defended, you have many drones and missiles hitting random targets. Ukraine drones also do this, while much less (and usually have bigger targets, refineries are huge).
Again, why waste a drone or a missile on a hospitals, maternity hospitals, Churches when they can target fuel station, train station, electric distribution centers, bridges, etc! Those have strategic importance! Finally, any intel on a school, apartment block being used by military or ammo/drone production also get to be strategic targets... Russia is still producing their ammo/drones in normal places, Ukraine is doing that hidden. If they are hit, of course they will say it was civilian target, they will not report that a strategic place was hit (that is actually forbidden, it is treason). So we get the survivor syndrome, we only know about one kind of samples
>You think the Allies didn't bomb German factories, oil depots, railheads, or other such targets
yes, they did, those are strategic targets, while civilian...they support the military. Hitting civilians around those targets while bad, is not intentional
Now the bombing of cities, we know today that did very little to help the war itself, it just cause death (mostly civilians, but also the planes crew), was extremely expensive. It was questioned by many as being a war crime and most people today agree it was.
If Germany kept bombing the airfields, UK may have fallen... but they diverted to bomb the cities, it gave time and resources for UK to keep fighting in the air.
The ally bombing of major german cities were better used if they bombed production centers, railroad and bridges
The USA bombing of Tokyo with incendiary bombs, razed the city, didn't altered the war... only the nuclear bomb did some effect, but mostly thanks to the Japanese emperor assuming the power (that he actually didn't had) and called the surrender. The military looked to both bombed cities as just another bombing and wanted to keep fighting. Luckily the respect all Japanese have for their emperor made that almost everyone obeyed. Go visit Hiroshima and see the bomb effects and you can't stop thinking that was a mistake (true that at that time, the bomb side effects were little known by those in command)