If reality doesn't fit your car-brained narrative, make up an alternative reality where your view makes sense.
I said no such thing. I implied no such thing.
I didn't say you said it. I said, satirically, that I thought that was what you were saying because you gave a non-answer to fluffernutter's question. This is what happens when your argument consists of a non-answer. The onus was on you to explain how your advocated car-free lifestyle would meet his needs and you effectively refused to explain.
That would get pretty expensive pretty fast. How about they use a mix of walking, bus and train? Funny thing about walking, he broke his hip (twice) and for a while had to use a wheeled walker to get aronud, and now walks with a quadstick somewhat slowly. Funny thing is how good walking has been for his recovery.
It's not a funny think at all. Physical activity is important for recovery. Taxis and things would get expensive pretty fast. Here's the thing that confuses me though. Having gone through a multi-year medical crisis and recovery myself, I am aware of how many different visits to hospitals, clinics of various kind, etc. are involved. Your 80 year old relative presumably needed that for broken hips and follow up visits, etc. Are all of those resources within walking distance of where they live and, if they weren't, how did they get there?
Do you reckon he also wishes his young relatives didn't have a job so they could just be there waiting on him hand and foot? My relative isn't a selfish asshat, so likely not. All his young relatives have jobs. No one would be available to just drive him places car or not.
Seems a bit sad. I've always thought that, of all the places I knew in the English speaking world, the US was the worst about letting employees actually take their allotted days for vacation, personal time, etc. or just take a few hours to help out a relative. I mean, I know you're in London, and that's a bit different than the rest of England or the UK in general, but has it really gotten so bad there? Or is like a "rugged individualist" family philosophy or something?
Oh wow now that's an amazing thing! He, as a disabled person unable to drive, and with some mobility problems can live his life without a car or relying on busy relatives or expensive taxis.
That's what "not car dependent" means.
You keep saying these things, but they aren't really relevant to what I have actually been saying. I am pretty sure (I mean, the "car-brained" insults and so forth pretty much clinch it) that the slightest hint of disagreement regarding automatically slots people into some category in your mind where you apply all sorts of stereotypes and biases to them. Which means you're not even arguing with me, you're arguing with a straw man you've built up in your mind. How about actually engaging with me based on what I am actually saying?
He is medically unable to drive. He does walk. He does buy some groceries on foot, some by delivery, he is not hypothetical, and I have no idea what he'd do in a different life. He's retired, obviously, does a bit of gardening, has some social groups he goes to, reads, etc.
Right, but you didn't address the case A vs. case B. You have implied that, somehow, he would have less options with a car available than without, which I find odd. The point of the exercise was for you to demonstrate how his options were limited by a car being available.
Every accusation is a confession.
The fact that you simply tried to DARVO the observation rather than simply addressing it and affirming that you aren't ableist. It's not really a good look.
It's wild, and insane that you think that is somehow abelist. I think you know what neither "abelist" or "car dependent" means.
When people use the claim that someone is playing the X card - where X represents some concept like racism, sexism, ableism, agism, etc.) - it is usually quite widely recognized that the person making the claim comes off sounding like someone who actually represents X. I am trying to give you the benefit of the doubt on that. Sometimes people just use awkward phrasing, etc. that comes out wrong. Doubling down, trying to flip it into a ridiculous accusation against me, and trying to alter what I said so that I was claiming something other than the use of language was ableist does not improve the impression.
Driving with severe anemia, nausea and atelectasis? Nothing wrong there! You sound totally safe and fully aware behind the wheel.
I was safe behind the wheel. Sitting was fine. I wasn't blacking out or anything so there was no danger of that. Vomiting while driving wasn't a problem either, I would just keep driving until I could pull over safely. Most of the time, I didn't even vomit up anything. My body would keep trying for ages though which is very uncomfortable. Ditto for the lungs. Or any of the other issues. Nothing about it ever left me instantly incapacitated, at least not as far as controlling my arms, eyes, hands and feet. Carrying my whole body around was another question of course. I asked my doctors about it, and they asked questions about my condition and gave me the OK to drive. You can try pull an "AHA!" over it and demonize me, but the simple fact is I was responsible and safe.
No, frankly you're a moron and incapable of independent thought
Yes, that is about what I assumed you thought about those who disagree with you on this. Essentially taking a solipsistic view that they are just p-zombies. I have actually been trying to discuss this, but you just won't seem to actually consider anything anyone else has to say and you keep warping what they're saying to fit some narrative in your head so you can just slot them in as some generic villain. It's clear you're maybe just a bit fanatical about this. All I was doing at the start of this was providing a counterpoint to show that a statistical correlation doesn't make an absolute rule, and also that perhaps your model was a little limited. Now I am apparently a mindless non-person. Sigh.