There seems to be no shortage of people with 2, 1 or zero children with ideas how to stop the population decline. In New York there is no shortage of ideas from people who have never built a multi dwelling unit on how to make housing more affordable. There are people who have never started a business and hired others with ideas about how we should create more jobs.
I have 5 kids (four amazing ones and the Tasmanian Devil on speed). If you want just replacement fertility you will need some families of 5 kids. Do the math. If you have 10 women and you expect 2.3 babies per woman, and 3 women either opt or can't have children, then 7 women need to have 23.
5 kids means starting young. It means having either a stable job at 25 or confidence that you will have a stable job. It means having stable housing. It doesn't mean a single family home with 6 bedrooms. It means a reliable place to live. It means having geographic mobility to look for work and opportunities. If you live in a country with rent controls, then you have created a housing shortage and only the rich can afford to move. If you live in a country that decided that the only stable jobs require a bachelors degree then it means your young at 25 will be deeply in debt. If you think everyone should be able to retire at 65 then you probably have created an economy that is a pyramid scheme diverting consumption to the older generations. If you have healthcare that universal but really gate kept by a doctors shortage, then your young, who don't have doctors feel insecure in having children.
If you screw your younger generations over for too long, then having large families becomes unfashionable. Society will erected more and more barriers to large families. You won't have even families of 4. You will have people putting off having their first child until after 30. People in their 20s might never have held a baby in the last 10 years which will make them even more hesitant to have one.
F#@k off with the virtue signaling, token subsidize for having a child. Children are expensive, like 10 or 20 thousand dollars a year. A thousand dollar subsidy won't change anyone's mind. A thousand dollar subsidy per child that you claw back to zero if a family makes 100 thousand is an insult.