It's getting to the point where it *can* be your secretary, if your needs are not particularly complex. I am using Gemma 4 for what amounts to journaling with feedback, and I have noticed that it has a decent idea when to apply Reasoning and when to just start spilling the tea—but it gets noticeably lazier about it as the context window fills up. Early in a session, it Reasons about every prompt. After 100K tokens of context, I explicitly have to ask it to use Reasoning or it generally won't (and sometimes won't even when asked).
But you're right about the other things. It's an alien, non-biological, and mostly non-aligned intelligence (and what alignment is there can be abliterated out). It has never been hungry. It has never been stared at by a larger, hungrier creature. It isn't carrying 4 billion years of biological baggage. Sometimes this causes disconnects from humans, other times it lets the machine wander down paths we're averse to exploring because they don't fit the heuristics we use to filter the data overload that reality would otherwise represent. It can recognize and even simulate emotion, but it doesn't *need* it as a cognitive crutch the way we do.