However, hybrids do the same ride if running on the electric motor.
For a few miles, anyway. And then they're back to being as noisy as an ICE car.
Charging at home -- you are fortunate to have that. Most people can't even get a parking spot, much less a charger they can overnight on.
Almost half could potentially have charging just by installing it or having their apartment complex install it, statistically speaking. If you live in a place where "most people can't even get a parking spot", you should consider either A. moving or B. not having a vehicle, because charging is the least of your problems.
Better technology? As in 24/7 tracking, and having to have your EV "approve" your trips, having someone hack your keyfob, a hit at 5 kph will total the vehicle because the battery is an integral part of the frame.
What the heck are you talking about? Key fob hacks happen on ICE cars all the time, and ICE cars have 24/7 tracking, etc., too. And no EV has to "approve" your trips. And no, the battery isn't an integral part of the frame. It's the floorboard. It is structural, but it is also pretty well protected against collision impacts.
Free charging? Good luck with that. If the EV charger isn't vandalized or the charger cord cut for the copper in it, you have to find the right app to use, be it EA, Tesla, or some unknown charging place with some piece of crap app that requires every permission under the sun in order for it to allow you to charge. As for free, that is getting less and less.
To within the margin of error, ignoring the pre-Model-3 period when Teslas came with free lifetime supercharging, free charging has never really existed except when provided by specific employers to their employees. It isn't "getting less and less" common. The employers that provide it are generally still providing it, and in greater and greater quantities.
A PHEV does everything an EV does, but I don't have to put an additional strain on the grid.
Umm... if it is doing everything an EV does (e.g. driving silently on electrical power), then you're putting strain on the grid.
A PHEV works regardless of power failures. Yes, grid down events exist. Just ask people in Houston and Florida. Grid down likely means you are hosed, while gas stations can operate on a generator.
So can EV chargers. Tesla temporarily deploys superchargers in certain places for big festivals, and those can either use diesel generators or giant battery packs, depending on how long it is going to be there.
I can use a number of PHEVs, like some Prius models and the upcoming RAMCharger as generators.
Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should. This seems like an incredibly bad idea to me for multiple reasons — high fuel consumption per watt, limited amount of power availability, extra wear on the car's battery, etc.
Automakers know people don't want to deal with the long lines and fights outside charging stations when making highway trips, and PHEVs do the same thing as EVs except allow for ease of getting gas.
A lot of folks like to fantasize about situations like that, but having driven across the country multiple times in an EV, that just isn't reality. The places where there are long lines outside of charging stations are basically all in areas with incredibly high EV deployment, and the superchargers are filled up by locals. The superchargers on major interstates outside of the major cities are approximately never full, with the exception of one on I-10 south of Phoenix (and I can't find that one anymore, so maybe when they opened the bigger one across the street, perhaps they ripped it out).