Something needs to be done about the mentally addicted. Because like all actual addictions, they end up damaging the person with the problems. Just a couple examples.
I went on a ferry ride a few weeks back. I enjoyed watching porpoises playing in the water alongside the boat, walked around the deck, even the seagulls were entertaining, they love to fly around the propeller was behind the ship for goodies that might have been churned up.
About 80 percent of the passengers were staring at their smartphones.
Just last night in a grocery store, some adipose addled woman ran me into a freezer while walking hunched over her phone while she was shopping. She glared at me, quite angry that I was in her vicinity, and she had to look up. And it wasn't a momentary thing, I watched incredulously as she continued down the aisle, never looking up. Must have taken a long time to shop if looking away from the phone is a bad thing.
The Gen Z stare https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/.... They touch on it, but don't go into depth. These kids are addicted to social media - the actual physical world is not their world, that smartphone is.
Frankly, being around methheads is better. At least they are in the moment.
Another part of the social media addiction follows, some of the biggest victims - so hear me out.
Validation. I have seen this especially with women. As social bulwarks like the #metoo ( itself an example of addiction as it morphed from actual sexual assault victims to women metooing men because of having a date they didn't enjoy) women permanently changed the way that men interact with them, many of who have branded all men as the enemy. Women still want validation (not a criticism, it is something most women want by nature) In a world where I can't tell a woman I think her dress is nice, or I like her earrings, guess where the validation comes from. Online, in social media.
Except now, it is just plain weird to read women giving other women validation about their new dress or earrings, offering sometimes highly sexualized comments to each other as validation. Men in the same groups make no comment at all. Which is what they have been tacitly ordered not to do. Meanwhile the women then go on to speak of how stupid their husband or male friends on in a sort of "can you top this"? contest. The men stay silent and only speak of "guy things" like having to mow the lawn or rake leaves. Sometimes with a "joke" insult reply by the women, that the men ignore.
This is an exceptionally unhealthy dynamic, fueled by mental validation addiction they are no longer getting. A really weird positive feedback loop, as good young women who are not womanists, who would love to have a good man, yet have been raised with social media and womanist adjacent, if not womanist, are getting quite upset that men don't approach them any more.
Men. In my continuing research, places like Youtube have been an interesting waterhole for men. Men who have been damaged in divorce or workplace accusations have found an outlet in Youtube. RedPill content is widely watched and commented on, and RedPill's younger brother MGTOW is really creating some waves, as video after video of women shaming or heaping hatred on men are shown, as reaction videos fair use. Every case found of false accusation are shown. Increasing numbers of young - even older - men have checked out of the relationship arena.
They don't run out of content either. In irony, the shaming has stopped working, every "Looks like the incel has shown up." comment has zero effect. Manshaming as it is known, has been used so often and for so many trivial things, it has no power any more.
Same thing for mansplaining. As many women today complain about a lack of mentoring in the workplace, we have to remember that telling a woman how something should be done, is textbook mansplaining. So men just keep their mouths shut. To the workplace gestalt, women see men conversing, joking, interacting with each other positively, then silence when she approaches. That has to be incredibly uncomfortable for them.
Yet I know so many good women who would make a great partner. Pleasant, cooperative, attractive and well presented. But no guy approaches them.
Social media is turning out to be a great way to disrupt society in a really bad way.