cocaine? spoken like a truly poor guy. I tell you, once you earn past a comfortable sum of money it is to blew it away when you do not stop a moment to think how much you are spending, and how much being left in the bank. More so when you have a partner in the same kind of mentality. Between two SINGLE persons, it is quite easy to blew 5k-10k at least without even a blink. I once got into that mentality into the honeymoon phase with an ex, but fortunately got into my senses a few months down the lane, and tried to reason with her - and guess what, she was not receptive. Guess what, it was maybe the main reason we called off the marriage. And once you put the kids also in the equation, I do not have even an ideia. And there are three of them. Given honestly the clueness of the guy, I would not be barely surprised if he is making 200k year and getting into debt.