I like how you said men and women cheat for different reasons, and only made it one sided against men. Nice balanced perspective there
No, what you've done in going in the other direction of un-"poisoning" feminism is to commit the same crime. Feminism is not ONLY what you say it is -- a light philosophical statement of social equality -- especially:
"Unless you believe women deserve less respect or fewer opportunities, simply for being female, congratulations, you are a feminist. "
In fact that part of it is a very SMALL part of it. And I'm sure you don't believe thats all it is, just as I don't. Its OBVIOUS to almost anyone on the street that this is not what feminism is only about. Feminism is an umbrella term from a myriad of things relating to female status, experience and political power in society, many of which move well beyond your above statement. Not only is it not as simple as this, but there are many factions of it that are antagonistic towards men -- that move politically and when possible legally -- and that do NOT believe in having equal social and egalitarian relationships with men.
Thus its not surprising that parts of it would be very WELLl described as poisonous -- and rightly so -- if you consider the objective here to be positive and equal collaboration between both genders for the betterment of humanity in total.
Right! It would be terrible of all those Africans got "lucky" too. I get it.
"It is better for civilization to be going down the drain than to be coming up it." -- Henry Allen