For gasoline and diesel vehicles, fuel is, actually, standardized
Well, if we're talking about fuel, then yes: electrons are standardized! Heck, even the delivery mechanisms (i.e., the electrical grid) are standardized - at least regionally.
If you're going to complain about EV batteries not being standardized between vehicles, well: try transplanting the fuel tank from a 1999 Silverado into a 2018 BWM, or vice-versa. Or really any of the parts, come to think of it.
there are only a limited number of batteries for ICE vehicles: while it's a large collection, they're relatively standard and if you have the space you can generally fit a larger one than you need in the same vehicle without problems.
If you want to talk about the 12-V batteries in cars - nothing about them except the chemistry and nominal voltage is standard. They kinda come in roughly the same blocky shape, but it's not at all given that you could lift the battery from one vehicle and drop it in another. If you waltz into an auto parts store and say "hey, my car needs a new battery", the clerks will immediately ask for the Year, Make, and Model of the vehicle (sometimes even the trim level). Why is that, if car batteries are as standardized and interchangeable as you think.