Comment Your post is disturbing (Score 1) 200
The part that I find is disturbing about your post is where you just say it's an excuse. That's a word used in English to dismiss people outrigh.
If you're not a native English speaker though I apologize. But if you aren't understand that when you use the word excuse in english, at least in American english, it's basically an insult.
Anyway as far as transportation system it's got nothing to do with appearing homeless. The problem is that we don't have public transportation. If you try to commute to work using public transit you can expect a 20 minute car drive to be a 2-hour bus ride. Now do that twice a day. And continue to work 60 to 80 hours a week because remember, Americans work more hours to the Japanese now. Look it up.
That might not be a lack of empathy on your part it could just be you don't live in America so you might not understand how bad our transportation system is. Our car companies completely dominated the transportation system and shut down any attempt to build out public transit in order to force people into cars. They also work with the airplane industry for any long-distance travel. That's why Elon Musk came up with the hyperloop, it was a scam to shut down high speed rail in California.
Finally ask for the abuse of parents you're describing that's called generational trauma. Is a difficult cycle to break. That one's kind of global so you really should regardless of the country you live in stop to think about that.
Again though these might be things you don't know if you're not American and might not make sense to you if you're not a native English speaker.
I think you have fallen into a lot of really bad thought patterns but that's not necessarily your fault, there is a lot of propaganda out there that is designed to put you into those thought patterns. You're probably pretty pissed off with me right now for pointing this out especially because I am fairly tactless what would being a nerd.
But you should try to unpack and deconstruct some of the crap you picked up over the years, especially anything from your 4 to 14 age. Google the phrase 4 to 14 if you don't understand what that means... Good luck.