Comment Re: I much prefer Star Trek (Score 1) 45
The worst thing my parents ever did to me was teach me to be honest.
I can absolutely relate. In general, I find it’s best to keep my mouth shut and my keystrokes out of public view, but sometimes I just can’t resist.
In fact, in the modern world and possibly in the past as well, I think that most of our virtues can work against us. Some see traits such as empathy in others as weaknesses to exploit.
I still do my best not to relinquish my ethics. Despite the fact that humanity seems to have passed the event threshold, I also try to maintain some level of hope for our species.
I’m not actually sure that we can teach honesty. Maybe each person’s individual level of honesty is an inborn characteristic further shaped by general life lessons rather than solely by parenting.
I absolutely try to teach my children to be honest. One is, one isn’t, and about one I’m not sure yet. I’m relatively certain that the dishonest one was born that way. Like his mother, his intelligence is more akin to shrewdness than true intellect. Both of their mouths often seem to release falsehoods reactively. They subsequently try to rationalize such statements, which typically requires additional dishonesty, illogical arguments, or tactics such as changing the subject, projection, and so forth. I think that their environments do not provide sufficient negative consequences for dishonesty, which is more likely to be reinforced than punished.