> We let both of them watch tv and play video games. But it is time limited. Neither has a smartphone. The one that likes to watch dumb YouTube shorts is the one who does well in school and is self motivated. Our kid that struggles to care about school hates YouTube and tells his brother he is rotting his brain watching that garbage. So go figure.
One's a midwit, the other is smart. The smart one is bored out of his mind at school because he's stuck in a room with normal kids where 100-IQ teachers think they can make him do stuff he either has no interest in or could master in ten minutes if he cared enough and hasn't already.
School is mental torture for many smart kids.