The condescension is the problem. Yours included.
Yours included as well - your post kinda drips with condescension.
I've been posting on slashdot since college, through my technical career and several rounds of grad school. If you look at the diplomas hanging on my wall, and you knew nothing else about me, you'd assume by what I do and where I live and work that I was all in on the Follow The Science!
You would be mistaken, if I walked into your office, and saw those degrees on the wall, I would make judgements based on that. I have nothing but artwork on my walls, the degrees are safely packed away. I don't need to brag about my education. Not saying you do, but I'll look at that with interest until you prove otherwise. Just me being me, I've seen too many Phd's who aren't worth crap. I've seen too many custodians who are smart and able.
And I was absolutely appalled by how "The Science" got deliberately out front of its headlights and advocated with the full force of scientific certainty for things that at the time were known to be speculative at best or implausible at worst.
Are you conflating Medical doctors as people of science? They aren't. I've heard more batshit crazy unscientific Bullshit from medical doctors than most others.
My own take on this vaccine kerfuffle you appear to believe is scientists saying something akin to "this is how it is, without question" is this.
There was a problem, they produced a vaccine, and if you want to take it, good. If you want to not take it, good also. What I read early on was things like "It doesn't prevent infection, but if you contract Covid, you will probably be less harmed. Probably true enough. I know I took the first two, then two boosters. Never had an issue, other than after the first of the second dose, I had a slight fever. three acetaminophen took care of that overnight.
But here's the real kicker - I don't care at all if you don't want to vaccinate. I don't care if you think that DPT vaccines cause autism. I don't care if you die or get long covid, like some people I know who are on full time oxygen with destroyed cardiopulmonary systems. Take the vaccine or do not, not my problem. Now on the other hand, I don't care if you die either. It's your life, and although if your children die, because you have interesting ideas about vaccines, that's sad, but in the end, your choice, and you were accepting of their death or maybe even living in an iron lung when polio comes back. If you want to take ivermectin or hydroquinone, or even drink bleach, hey knock yourself out. It's your choice. I support your choice. You do as you decide is certain, if you need 100 percent certainty about any vaccine, if you demand 100 percent no side effects or even accidental death, then don't take them, I will stand behind you decision, and if you die - not my problem.
Keeping schools closed and mandating vaccines as a condition of entering a restaurant comes to mind as an example of the speculative and untested.
Schools - who knows? Restaurants? Now that is different. Property rights, my good man. If the owner or manager says you have to wear a mask, or produce a vaccine card, or get scanned for your temperature - it is his property, his rules. Just like you have to wear a mask when in my workshop which is a rule long before the plague happened. If you try to come in you are handed one. If you refuse to put it on, you are asked to leave. If you refuse to leave, I will stand my ground.
The "make the power move" advice you gave above is the exact opposite of the correct answer in every dimension.
Tough. I have a job to do, and it has to be done on time and as perfect as possible. It involves a lot of people and hella responsibility. People have to listen and do as I say. So sometimes when confronted with an offense weasel, I have to say what is needed to get them back to work. They might not like the shot across the bow aspect, but they cannot say they didn't get an apology. Accept the apology given, or GTFO.
That doesn't always mean I don't give a sincere apology. I had to interrupt a young lady a couple years ago to get something done immediately. We had a bit of an argument, mostly her, I just informed her that she really had to listen to me (not yelling, I almost never yell). I went back the next day and honestly apologized since she wasn't an offense weasel. She was kind of shocked, but accepted the apology graciously, indeed she even expressed sincere regret that she was yelling at me. Now we have each other's backs.
But like it or not, wasting apologies on people who have no intention of accepting them is an annoyance, and the "power move" as you say - is just a tool for getting shit done on time and correctly.