I believe you are missing two major developments that were led by the russians: First, the contributions of Konstantin Tsiolkovsky, whose works on rocket design and fuel mix ("Exploration of Outer Space by Means of Rocket Device", parts 1 and 2) laid the foundations of what we use today. Second, Aleksandr Lyapunov who develped and advanced theory of stability in his doctoral thesis in 1892.
According to my college professor, in the 1950's US engineers didn't bother to check russian publications on any subject, because they, just like you, thought that they were ignorant peasants that had nothing to contribute. Therefore they were completely ignorant about Lyapunov's developments. The thing is that Lyapunov's stability was a key advantage that allowed the soviets to beat the US in launching the first satellite into orbit. Only then, Kalman and others began to read their papers.
By the way, the first International Federation of Automatic Control (IFAC) World Congress, was held in 1960 in Moscow.
PS: I have no preference for any country whatsoever. On the contrary, I believe that excellence in science and engineering can and do arise in many places around the world. In this context, there is no point in dismissing the russians or any other country/place.
PS2: The US response to the Sputnik crisis led to the creation of ARPA, which without any doubt has fueled the US hegemony for decades. Quite an achievement.