Here in Texas, we have those, except they are nicknamed "Braille lane markers", and are square, with one side beveled and reflective white, the other side beveled and reflective red (so if one sees a bunch of them red, that should give a hint that one is going the wrong way on a highway.)
I too am leery about depending on other cars. Yes, a module could be made if the core chip was made as secure as the Clipper chip (where the dies were put in a top secret area where the Skipjack algorithm was written onto them)... but car to car communication isn't something easily upgraded, barring all the auto makers getting together and coming up with a standard, then implementing the standard in a proper way.
What could happen is that vehicles use some tamper-resistant item like a SIM for V2V communication... however, to hackers, the payoff would be immense, especially if they could cause wrecks in a lot of the country at once.
It isn't unsolvable though. GM's OnStar has not had a successful attack, although if bad guys do get access to it, they can easily disable vehicles if there is a hurricane or other evacuation just to compound the damage and loss of life. So far, this hasn't happened yet.