I think that "tautology" doesn't mean what you think it means. Your three part list doesn't seem in the least tautologous to me, for example, because it doesn't even cover a continuum, let alone all possible cases in a continuum. What is your attitude to things that you cannot change, but someone else can (say, that girl who completely ignores you, no matter what you do to gain her attention ; you can't change that, but she can)? Or the things that you cannot change, and no-one else can (you're not going to get a suntan from Sirius A). Are you going to change the voting system in your country to one-man, one vote (with you being the one man, and you having the one vote)?