I was never hospitalized when I was in the Navy years ago, but I get all of my medical care now from the VA and have been hospitalized on three different occasions. Almost all of the care I've received at the VA, either in a hospital or as an out-patient, has been very good, and the people there understand that if it weren't for people like me they wouldn't have their jobs. Yes, there are exceptions, but there are bad apples and lazy people everywhere. I'm sorry to read that your experience wasn't as positive, and if there were anything I could do about it, I would.
That being said, I wouldn't use military or VA facilities to quarantine civilians who have been exposed to Ebola unless all available civilian hospitals were full because that's not what military/VA hospitals are for; they have their own job, and they're busy doing it.