It always seems to come from people who were born into wealth or privilege.
Okay, so straight in with the ad-homs, right.
It's very much like "slaves got free food and shelter, so what were they complaining about argument".
Aaand we're off. Women as historical slaves. Let's take a closer look at that, shall we?
If the woman was a slave, that would make the man the mint julep sippin' massa, right? Except was there ever one single white slave owner who ever died to save the lives of his black slaves? Who ever gave up a space in a lifeboat to his black slave and chose to go down with a ship in their stead? Who ever stood with a rifle between his black slaves and an enemy to defend their lives, rather than his right to own them?
Can you even imagine a white slave owner working 16 hours in a field while his black slave stayed inside most of the day and kept his house tidy, then coming home and sharing the fruits of his labors with his black slave?
Did a black woman who was the sexual partner of a white slave owner have any expectation of respect, lifelong provision or shelter, or of sharing the benefits of his quality of life and his social status? Or was she just an object of the moment, free to be used and cast aside at will? Did a black man who was obligated to obey his owner's wife have any legal right or recourse when she pointed a finger and claimed he raped her? Or was he swinging from a tree within hours?
Yeah, women weren't slaves (except the ones that were actual slaves of course) and it's pretty horrifyingly racist that someone would diminish the experiences of actual slaves by such a comparison.
Did you notice that the list of privileges you laid out are all in relation to a husband?
Yes, that was the point I was making. Wives in comparison to husbands, people of equivalent social status except one has more priveleges than the other, and it turns out that it wasn't the husband. This came from a woman of the time incidentally, and an awful lot of women agreed with her. Of course they were probably also incensed at the attitudes of the suffragettes towards poor folk and those of colour.
For almost all women before the 1960's the only possible comfortable life was by having a husband.
So any unmarried women rapidly died off in poverty?
People in power had absolutely no problem with refusing jobs, loans, or admittance to anything by saying to her face "no, you're a female, this is for men ". Trust me on this; I was there.
And do you think that was because they hated women or didn't want to have to deal with long absences if she got pregnant? There's usually a practical reason for all of this stuff once you scratch the surface and dispense with the hysterics.
Almost no University or medical school (except women's colleges) would accept her as a student unless she was a blood relative of a faculty member or wealthy donor.
Which applied to men also. Third level education was for rich people back then.
yes, I know there were a few exceptions and those were EXCEPTIONS, so don't give us any examples of someone who got in.
Okay, so you know you're wrong and don't want to hear that. At least you admitted it up front I guess.
Almost no bank would grant a loan for business or property without the written permission of her husband, unless she was a blood relative of one of the bank's officers.
I'm self employed and the banks won't give me a loan for property because of the erratic nature of being self employed. The banks don't hate me or treat me this way because of my gender, they just weigh up the chances of getting their money back and decide they can do better elsewhere. Trying to paint this as misogyny or misandry is ridiculous.
Almost no career advancement path was available for a woman, but they could do the same work with a lower title. Women could be bookkeepers, but not accountants. They could move from clerk to office manager (of clerks), but not district or regional managers.
Dorothy Dix was the world’s most successful female columnist of the first half of the 20th century, whose columns were syndicated internationally. Here's one of her columns from 1938:
DEAR MISS DIX – Do you think the girl who is always trying to save a boy’s pocketbook, even though she may not be going to marry him, is appreciated as much as the gold-digger who is out for all she can get? I have always in mind the fact that a boy may not have a great deal of money and try to keep him from spending money upon me, but my friends say I am foolish not to take all I can get, and certainly, as far as I can see, I get no thanks from the boys. So where am I? — Mabel.
Answer – from the way boys complain about how the girls hold them up, and what it costs to take a Jane out for an evening’s diversion, I should think that all the young men of your neighborhood would fall on your neck with loud cries of gratitude.
For the gold-diggers certainly are heartless robbers. They go on the assumption that every youth is a millionaire, although they work right at the next desk to him and are perfectly aware that his pay envelope has no more in it than theirs.
Now that's not to say that pay gap and career issues didn't exist, but I would estimate that they existed for the same reason as they do today, as in nothing to do with paying women less purely because they are women. There are certain jobs where your genitalia will affect your pay rate but they generally aren't pursued by polite society.
But for every one of those there were countless others who had the door slammed in their face or stabbed in the back for the sole reason they were female.
And yet it seems odd that the majority of my older female relations and indeed your own mother somehow managed to not just find work but have good careers during these dark ages of woman hatred. No?
The takeaway is that it's starting to overall look like poor people being ground down by rich people, rather than men grinding down women. Life treated anyone not born with a silver spoon in their mouth pretty badly historically.