1) The general accepted theory is STILL that Covid did not escape from the Wuhan institute. There is some evidence and some respected scientists argue for that theory but no consensus. The CIA calls it a 'low confidence theory'. The fact you think it turned out to be 'true' rather than possible discredits your opinion. Just do a quick google to find the generally accepted 'truth'.
2) When you said 'strategic move to not address', you failed to address who MADE the strategic move, a strong indication you are mistaken. Referring to a generic 'they' is how tin foil hat guys avoid the many issues with their own theories while trying to point out a possibly false issue with the generally accepted viewpoint.
3) There are definitely people out conspiring to lie to the general public. Just compare Russian Media with all other Media. Or Liberal American Media vs Conservative American Media. They both can't be true. And yes, the liars DO yell out "Conspiracy Theory" at the honest people.
4) The general real why things are accepted as 'conspiracy theory' rather than disputed is based not on poor evidence but on the poor quality of their arguments. We call people with bad evidence wrong, not conspiracy theorists. We call them Conspiracy theorists because their arguments are horrible. They look at things they do not understand and point out things they think are weird but they turn out to be normal. They ignore massive holes in their own arguments while looking at tiny things in the opponent.