Comment Re:Good (Score 1) 187
Yes, I agree with you.
My son has so far figured things out on his own. A couple of times he called to ask for help, but after a conversation, he figured out how to get through the scrape by himself. I give him that much credit. If he ever did come to me in such a desperate situation that he needed Dad to cover, the loan would come with strings, in the form of a repayment plan, and forming and following an actual budget for the duration of the loan.
We never co-signed a lease or a note for our kids, and despite that, they found ways to own vehicles and rent apartments. That's a good way to learn how to be independent, by being...independent.
I agree, too many adult children expect, and get, a free ride from their parents.