Comment Re:I used to make this same exuse... (Score 1) 536
I earned friendship with 3-4 people during my 3 years playing Final Fantasy XI. Had very good times with it/them. But I must agree the game was masking a "real" life I wasn't enjoying.
I dunno if playing the game was the reason (one of them) I was in bad shape (body, mind, life in general) Or maybe the game was just a symptom something was going wrong (with or without game). And I'm sure I don't regret having played all those moments. But I agree with this comment in a first person view. Life is so great, so beautiful. The small things and the big ones. There are so many, and so little time, that I prefer to avoid somehow those that tends to alienate me from others (some drugs, some games...)
I played WoW for 12 months later. But from another point of view. I've enjoyed it a lot too. Trick was giving to all activities higher priority than WoW's. No matter if it was just a beer with a friend who wants to talk about his job. No matter, it takes priority. No weird excuses. You put on your clothes, walk/drive to him and enjoy. WoW, raids and bosses will be there later... You just have real things on that exact moment.
I plan to play Final Fantasy XIV the same way next year. I'll only permit this kind of games to enter my life on "lonely sundays evenings"... And only if it rains !!!!! I've discovered I like to walk !!!!! ^_^
PD: Maybe I'haven't expressed myself correctly. English is not my first language -_-