It's not "disobeying." We don't say a software library -- .dll or .so -- disobeys when there's a segfault or gives you an unexpected response. It is practically impossible to disobey; you just don't know what it was told to do. So long as you are using someone else's LLM, built somewhere you can't see before you use it, you will never know what it was told to do. Your belief that the clockwork is thinking, and it's thinking what you're thinking, is dangerously naïve.
"It did a thing that harmed me" well, same goes for a worn tire blowing out on your car, but do you assign intent to the tire or the car? Hell no. "I filed my taxes, but when I was audited it was found I owed another $200" and do you say the US Tax Code disobeyed? Hell no. What if you were audited and found you had a $200 refund, would that be disobeying? Because that's the same thing here: you prompted the tax code bureaucratic process with your tax returns, and you got an unexpected answer.