> Worse than that, they enter post college life mentally like 9th graders.
That's a lot. Causes?
New internet and mobile media, helicopter parents, various levels of deficient education and socializing during COVID years
What else?
The social experiment of instilling self esteem at extreme levels without corresponding achievement.
The being told they could find meaningful careers, that if they found their passion, nothing could stop them, that they were the most important person in the universe, and that they'd be top level earners in just a few years, and have a career trajectory that would have them running the world while still in their 20's
I've seen it many times. A fresh graduate coming into a job, absolutely knowing they were superior to those olde fartes who were superannuated, and didn't know much.
Then after discovering that they were not superior to people who had experience, they did an intense crash and burn. Many moved back in with mommy and daddy, and lived off of them.
And the mental crisis appears to be down to the college freshman level now, likely lower.
Because the fact is, few people have jobs that change the world, and few people are billionaires ever, and work can be a grind, and life can be tough at times, and that self esteem needs accomplishments, without accomplishments it resembles narcissism.
And a big one is passion. Few people have passion, and if they did, they would not want it. Passion is a white hot pillar of flame that can take over your life, hardly resonating with people who view work/life balance as the goal in life. They need to redefine this as having a mile interest in something, not passion.
Trying to protect our children from all adversity, supervising their every activity, and telling them they are the most important being on the planet is having the opposite effect. Intellectually weak adults with minds of a child.