It is illegal* to ask if candidates are married.
It is illegal* to ask if candidates have children.
It is illegal* to ask if candidates live with their parents.
* In America.
Yup, I was not allowed to ask female candidates anything about family or children. I could get fired if I did.
There were a number of women I interviewed who were aware of this issue, and at some point, they would say something like "I know you aren't allowed to ask, or even react, but I am not having any more children, and will not have my family interfere with my work."
And for a lot of positions, like Team Lead, it is really important to have some idea about family matters, like are we going to have multiple team leads so that the woman can have children and take leave?
Point is, not being allowed to ask questions like that, while on the surface is protecting some sort of privacy, it also makes for a decision process that might favor male candidates in more critical positions.
I've never been in a position where I could take large swaths of time off. Some positions are like that. Even for accidents. Day after I got out of the Hospital for a broken ankle I got calls to come in. I told them I could come in the next day, but they had to understand I was quite drugged up, that I had on a bloody cast that I had to keep elevated.
Hell, the wife intercepted a call from them trying to get me to come in the day of my ankle operation. She's a professional too, but wouldn't tell me until a couple weeks later. She wasn't at all happy.
note, that ended up being quite a kerfuffle. Wife was so pissed she was swearing at me, people at work were pissed, mostly at who asked me to come into work - but a little at me as well. One of our photographers grabbed a picture of me in shorts and T-shirt with my cast propped up. I think it might have been for evidence.
But even in more normal times, I'd get phone calls for some emergency while I was at the beach, or across the country. Just part of the territory.
Shit needs to get done, and team leads are often a pinch point.
Final note: I'm sure people in here will chime in calling me a psychopath, maybe a people pleaser. I know right?