Apparently you can't deal with the truth, because every argument you just made, claimed I said something that I didn't say.
I never said the teacher was qualified to diagnose ADAH. What I did say was that the teacher might have seen sufficient signs of concern, to warrant a referral to a doctor.
I never said you *were* in the subset of parents who don't know how ugly their own children can be. Are you? You refused to listen to your teacher, and to the doctor your son saw. Those are two important clues that you might not be seeing reality.
I never said that doctors "never" rubber stamp anything. I do say it's not as common as parents claim, when a doctor diagnoses their child with a "label" the parents don't agree with.
So when you respond, how about let's stick with the truth, and not claim I said things I didn't say.