If many of those 602 used life-threatening resistance, they weren't nearly as effective as the police in using deadly force.
So you want police to use less effective tactic to even out the statistics?
they are more likely to die from accidents than targeted violence?
From your own numbers 46 were killed by accidents. I believe that 65 is a much larger number than 46. Another issue is that police have control over their own actions but have no control over accidents. Any human being will do their best to protect their own life. If you look like you are going to kill me and I have the means I will kill you first. I have no control over the bus I didn't see coming and accept that risk.
Me personally, I'd rather take a bullet and die from it than shoot a 12 year old over my own fear. Especially if it was my job to protect innocent lives.
I guess you don't have a family. Most cops want to do their jobs and get home to their families.