1. Generally databases are backed up to a plain text file. The database being natively in binary isn't just for fun you know, there is good reason.
2. I've never seen this to be the case. Maybe if your spreadsheet is on a local drive and your database is over the internet, but that's not fair, you can have local databases and you can have spreadsheets on slow network shares. Given equivalent situations, I've seen database do a lot better. Incidentally, this is pretty much the *whole point* of the binary format that can't be read in a trivial text editor, performance pretty well requires it.
3. I really wonder what sort of database interface you are using if this is the case. Databases are much much more capable of having quickly defined views of pertinent data. Spreadsheets tend to get awkward with many sheets in a book with lots of columns and very very difficult to pull the data coherently at that point. Of course CSV is even worse, you don't have that extra dimension that 'workbooks' give you to play in.
4. Again, something is wrong if you consider database use to necessitate pasting into a spreadsheet.
Some of the advantages of a DB:
-Performance
-Better facility for multi-user access and edit (far less tempting for someone to 'save off their own copy' to work on and try to merge in later)
-Better programmatic manipulation of data and reports
-Better representation and use of complex data relationships.
-Far more competent facilities for searching (you even admit this one but dismiss it as pointless) Incidentally, the syntax isn't that arcane even in SQL terms, but consider that you perform these searches on a daily basis as you got to arbitrary internet sites and type strings in boxes or select from a drop down.
You have to understand why the tendency for some groups to use/abuse spreadsheets is very very bad. For example, one business demanded I write them a webapp and use an ODBC driver so that the database format was in XLS format so their hr people could do whatever they wanted to the 'database'. When against all my recommendations they implemented it, they suffered greatly and I was the one left with trying to fix or talk people out of bad behavior when things went pretty much exactly as I warned them it would.