1. Trade skills pay like crap unless the work is *very* dangerous or you're running your own business, in which case you're not a tradesman you're a small businessman. Go to college kid.
This only works so long as tradesmen remain hungry for work and willing to accept less than adequate wages. Tradesmen build literally everything that we all enjoy within this physical world. It seems foolish to me for us to try to leave them all behind via wage gap. Imo, there are forces at work depressing their wages that will not stand the test of time.
2. There's no such thing as a permanent an reliable partner. Humans are human. People who make it to their 80s together are outliers or being forced to stay together by societal pressures, which is usually bad news for all involved.
That seems like a weird way to describe my grandparents, and it's attacking my point on the long-year side, which matters a lot less (which should obvious to anyone with children). Small kids need stability to really thrive, and they really don't need nor deserve the turmoil produced from short-term failed relationships. If you have any verified research to share that shows kids actually thrive best within unstable home environments during the 0-18 years, I'm more than happy to read it.
3. Alcohol is a drug. So is weed and by all accounts if it's not used to abuse levels safer than Alcohol in moderation. LSD isn't a hard drug. We're talking heroine and meth.
So is caffeine (I'm 1000% guilty here and probably most of this site as well). The line for "hard drug" is difficult to draw, as it is subjective. Having consumed weed myself, I'd place it at about the abusiveness and addictiveness level of alcohol (as I sip some scotch, wine, and diet soda while I type this, in that order). The issue really isn't the drug, but rather the total effect it has upon your daily life and the impression of "responsible social behavior" that you bestow upon your kin. If you're missing recitals and soccer practice because you're stoned-AF, that's a problem. If you're doing shit in front of your young kids, effectively encouraging them to consume while they're still at a very manipulatable stage of life, that's a problem. Going on a weekend bender with your friends, and your kids will never know until later in their lives, that's totally fine.
Shitty friends are really getting pummeled here. They probably deserve it, though. No complaints.
5. Pretty much impossible to do this is what I was hinting at, unless you win the lottery and score one hell of a job (probably from family connections) or you're a random math genius who can command a high salary.
There's a difference between taking what you can get and searching for what you deserve. I grew up in a rural town that certainly could not sustain my life goals, nor my career potential nor my earnings requirements -- tldr; I moved. It's really up to the individual to stand up for themselves and seek out locations that offer better opportunities for themselves. I can't tell you that you need to leave your home town (you'd probably think I'm an asshole for saying such and won't listen nor oblige), but I can say that if you have a passion and talent, and your locale cannot seem to sustain it, then maybe you should look outside the walled garden for new opportunities.
6. And yep, Unicorn jobs do exist, but they're few and far between and in 2023 nothing last forever. I know so many boomers who had 3 jobs their whole lives, 1 of which was in high school and the other in college...
Honestly, you'd be surprised. If you aren't finding satisfaction from work, then treat your work as work - ie, pays the bills. Dump your extra time into your passions and share the output with others (ex. this may be music you produce and drop on spotify, or consumer engineering prototyping as a side gig, or even starting a podcast with your friends). You may find yourself surprised by initial response and even more surprised by the end result when you put more effort into it.