Oh you mean as in:
Woman: "I'd like to fuck your brains out".
Society: "Isn't she forward... a bit of a whore, eh?"
Man: "I'd like to fuck your brains out".
Society: "Men... penile brain override activated."
How's about we take these things with a bit of humor. Nobody who counts actually believes these stereotypes. Sure, even I am surprised to see a skilled IT pro that is female, because they're so rare, but that doesn't mean I expect women to be unable to be just that.
Can't we just stop being sensitive ballsacks about every little bit of political incorrectness?