I only visit /. about once every couple of weeks now, so I didn't read the story of Brandon until tonight. I do see that, in the public school system, boys being boys are deemed a failure. Certainly, the system will reap what it sows as it discourages boys from being happy.
The story about the teacher who was pushed beyond his limits was extremely sad. My youngest step-son went to prison for twelve years for crimes he did not do; but, at one point he was pushed beyond his limit of self-control, and that failure was spun into (so-called) evidence. (Boy would I ever rejoice if his step-mom and bio-dad died in a fire - but I digress).
What is obvious in both the Brandon example and the Peter Harvey example is a massive failure in leadership. The teacher, Peter Harvey, should not have had to put up with the abuse. President Truman said "the buck stops here". Did Mr. Harvey's boss ever say that? Did any of Brandon's teachers ever say that? No, they shifted the blame away from themselves, and chose to let wounds fester.
I think this is the new, modern age.
Part of it is based on big media: blame sells. There is a lot of money to be made pointing at (public personae) foibles. As the world gets more personal (more interconnected), blame can become a real worry at the individual level. Hell, I helped write an email-retention policy, and the local newspaper jumped on the news that someone might sue us for it. The (elected) District Attorney is far more worried about the number of bad guys he threw in prison instead of whether his oath of justice is being served. He won't get good press for doing the right thing, if it means an accused goes free.
Another part of it is greedy lawyers with greedy clients. Deep pockets are a gold mine. Some times it is just cheaper to settle than to prove that innocent little Johnny wasn't so innocent and deserved the punishment his teacher meted out. The buck should stop with Johnny's parents (the true failures in this equation); but instead the administration will buckle and the teachers will be told to suck it up.
Part of it is Government. (BTW, I'm a part of government). It's been said that Government is The Anti-Business, and that is really true. Businesses want customers, government doesn't* (every time the Police are called, somehow society failed). Business need to run at a profit or they are shut down. Governments should be non-profit and if the losses are too great, can instead levy taxes. Businesses can choose to go into an under-served market. Governments are required by law to serve. (Example: if enough new restaurants open, the Government is forced to hire more inspectors - the Government cannot tell the restaurant it cannot open because the restaurateur can sue. Same story for growing populations and sewer, water, fire, schools, etc). If a businesses employees are rude, the business loses money. If a government employee is rude, wait - wasn't that the norm? You, the client, are a burden after all....
My point is that in a business, The Buck Stops at whatever level it needs to**. If the customer service rep needs to be fired, that can happen. In Government, it might take a Grand Jury to convene. Absent criminal charges, certainly the unlawful termination lawyers are going to flock like vultures on carrion. Whole person-years can be spent passing the buck, trying to cut it smaller so that only an insignificant piece sticks.
I don't know squat about Star Trek canon.
Does The Prime Directive come with prison penalties? If that is the case, then I would give the nod to The Federation. But I don't see that happening.
If I had to bet which would make to space first, I'd bet on the Klingons. The buck stops with the Klingon who f****d up. In the Federation, James T Kirk beats the Kobayashi Maru by cheating. That buck went into the shredder like so many in the new, modern age do.
Progress is made by the guy that claims the buck, even if he fails. The guy that passes the buck never helped anything progress.
*OK - Government shouldn't, but if it grows the empire, then job security grows too.
**Hmmm - Goldman-Sachs: business or government? Certainly a business with govt. protection.