Journal bellus quies's Journal: Is it supposed to hurt this much? 5
Well.
My (ex?)boyfriend is sleeping over at his dad's place.
I'm flying out to New Mexico tomorrow morning for the weekend to hang out with my sister and get some space for us both to think about things.
We're going to talk more when I get back on Monday.
This fucking sucks.
Things have a way..... (Score:2)
The answer is: yes. (Score:2)
Be glad it does - it means you are capable of giving love and of not flippantly discarding those to whom you have given that love.
A new day will come.
Pix
Re: (Score:2)
Thanks for saying that. For both Bellus and myself (I'm going through something similar, and your words ring very true).
you're going to be fine... (Score:3, Insightful)
i really think, from what i've read, that your boyfriend has some issues with his family that are preventing him from being in the relationship fully. i recognize ME from 5 years ago in him. i had to make a clean break from my family before i was ready to be in a relationship. parents and siblings should rarely have anything to do with the dynamics of a relationship if your partner is 100% in the relationship. the partner should be able to be himself completely.
i hope he sees, somehow, with some time how much he misses you. maybe that will trigger something in him that he needs to work out.... i hope you don't beat yourself up because it really looks like you've tried your best.
it will hurt, but i can see that you will be fine and if things work out with him, they will. if they don't, you'll be fine. you really will--you just might need to feel the pain for a while before it dissipates. i think we'll back you up here.
I'm afraid... (Score:2)
Sorry, I don't mean or want to be harsh, just giving you an outsiders opinion from the JE's you've read. You've put a lot into the relationship... you've worked hard. I hope everything works out for you in the end. Be hopeful either way. If you are together, hopefully he'll understand that he needs to put in more work than you (which sounds like quite a