Journal DaytonCIM's Journal: Uh, huh. Welcome to 21st Century 24
Kansas lawmakers just realized that children were marrying adults in their lovely, god-fearing state... a 14-year-old pregnant girl married her 22-year-old boyfriend. A 37-year-old housewife married her son's 15-year-old friend. And so on...
So, the House voted 119 - 0 to raise the age to... 15. And the Senate passed it 36 - 4.
I won't comment on the 4 dissenters.
What the fuck is wrong with these folks? C'mon! These kids aren't old enough to figure out geometry, but they're old enough to marry?
And yes, I am now bringing the Gay Marriage Agenda to the discussion:
It's OK for adolescent teenage, not-old-enough-to-drive or hold a job, still physically and mentally maturing CHILDREN to marry, but it's NOT OK for two fully grown ADULT men (or women)?
Gimme a fucking break.
there are conditions... (Score:2)
Those who are 16 or 17 could marry if they met one of three conditions: permission from a parent or legal guardian and judicial consent; permission from both parents and any legal guardian; or permission from judge if the parents are dead and there is no legal guardian.
And it's a heck of a lot better than what the law was previously which did not
Re:there are conditions... (Score:1)
If kids are getting married at age 14 or 15, the problem is most likely bad parenting. No amount of government intervention will ever get rid of bad parenting. Just making more laws that won't stop bad parenting, but may hinder good parenting, is a bad idea.
Marriage ain't about love. It's about procreation (Score:2)
What the fuck is wrong with these folks? C'mon! These kids aren't old enough to figure out geometry, but they're ol
Re:Marriage ain't about love. It's about procreati (Score:2)
OK, so I learned it from Mad Magazine, so what?
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i wouldn't call your definition of marriage old-fashioned. i'd just call it narrow. procreation is definately some
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No, love wasn't invented by the Capitalists. But if you had truly read your Shakespeare for more than just the superficial sound of the words, you'd know that in every one of his plays, love and marriage are separate things. Romeo and Juliet were kept apart by their families to avoid the o
Re:Marriage ain't about love. It's about procreati (Score:1)
love and marriage are different ideas, but i agree to disagree with you that they are unrelated. there is so much more to be gained through love and marriage than just making new humans. i personally plan to partake in some recombinant DNA experiments with my wife, but even without having done so thus far, i have gotten more out of our love and commitment
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There's more than just physical assets- it's also about passing on the way of life, a means of making your customs and traditions imortal. That's why faithful Jews were required to marry, for instance.
love and marriage are different ideas, but i agree to disagree with you that they are unrelated.
I think you may misunderstand me- they WERE unrelated.
Re:Marriage ain't about love. It's about procreati (Score:1)
love is a commitment.
i feel sad for you and your lack of love. but i'm glad you can find reasons that let you
Re:Marriage ain't about love. It's about procreati (Score:2)
Still, NO, at least not the romantic lust that so many Americans think love is. AGAIN, possibly- IF you're committed enough to stay married for decades, you're going to fall in and out of love with your spouse many, many, many times- and this is completely natural. Jobs, parenting, household chores, illness, and finances will get in the way from time to time- but if you're committed to
Re:Marriage ain't about love. It's about procreati (Score:1)
All good things come to an end- and if you've had any sort of a LENGTHY relationship with anybody, you know well that you will cease to love, and begin to hate, and go back to loving anybody you're in a relationship with.
i've been with the woman i'm married to for ten years. we've been married for almost three of those years. i haven't fallen out of love with her. there have been things we have needed each other to work on. there have been things we have needed to wor
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Yes, that's very likely. I'm using Standard American- that is the culture point of view where being "In Love" means you're not only completely happy with everything your partner does, you are often quite blind to their faults where everybody around you is screaming at you about those faults. FAR too many people take that as a reason to get married- and we all know what happens to marriages that are based on that initial flus
Not my opinion... (Score:2)
Re:Not my opinion... (Score:2)
I don't subscribe to the infallibility of Papal Doctrine - look at the Crusades or the Spanish Inquisition or the Church's silence during the Holocaust.
Love is love: whether it's between a man and a woman or a woman and a woman or a man and a man.
Papal Infallibility (Score:2)
Re:Not my opinion... (Score:2)
Before this gets any more heated, I'm just playing devils advocate, here... not my opinions or anything...
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Speaking as a former Catholic, this is a bad thing? =)
I keed, I keed.
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Well, actually, it does separate you from Rome, and thus makes taking the Blessed sacrament sinful (under the idea that communion is for those who are actually IN COMMUNION with Rome). But then again- given your examples of political decisions as a reason for rejecting the Doctrine of Papal Infallibility, plus your use of the wrong title for the doctrine, I th
Re:Not my opinion... (Score:2)
Tell that to the Old Catholics [wikipedia.org], the Eastern Orthodox Churches [wikipedia.org], the Oriental Orthodox Churches [wikipedia.org], and the Assyrian Church of the East [wikipedia.org].
Re:Not my opinion... (Score:2)
On this last, I look to a sister church- the Liberal Reformed Dutch Catholic Church- and what happened when THEY spoke out. Suddenly Pius XII's decision to stay silent and issue fake death and baptism certificates for 860,000 Jews in the city of Rome seems like a MUCH better decision (when compared to speaking out in Amersterdam, which directly led to a sweep of the city for Jews, Catholics, and Catholics harboring Jews, all of which were sent to the concentration ca
Re:Not my opinion... (Score:2)
Actually, most people completely misunderstand Catholic doctrine on this subject. Here's the truth:
1. Sacramental Marriage requires an intent to procreate- it may well be that the couple turns out to be infertile, but they MUST get married intending to have children.
2. Civil Marriage is the jurisdiction of governments, as it is a business contract, and has nothing to do with the Church. As such, mere civil marriage contains