It doesn't do any good with my paltry income for me to pay extra money. That's not taxes that's charity and charity has existed for thousands of years and has always failed to meet people's needs.
Every little bit helps, especially when building your credibility. I think what you're trying to say is you don't mind paying your taxes but you'd like other people to be happier paying more so other people (and perhaps you but you haven't said that) get more services.
I am grudgingly willing to pay my taxes because, for all its flaws, I think democratic government is the best and our democratic government had decided what I owe. I'm not thrilled because I think the California government is very wasteful in its spending. If it was more careful about how it spent my tax dollars to provide social benefit as efficiently as possible, I'd be less grudging. Is that nuanced enough for you?
Having actually read some history books (see your ask below), I'm skeptical charity was always inadequate. Americans are extraordinarily charitable, now and historically. What the increased welfare spending of the last 100 years has done is crowded out charitable activities. Americans historically used charity to great effect. But you also need to view those efforts in historical context. Charitable giving in 1900 was never going to bring poor people to today's standard of living because that was entirely impossible. JP Morgan himself didn't have today's standard of living in many ways. No kidding poor people of 1900 didn't have a car and air conditioning.
Americans are also extraordinarily self-supporting. We, and I assert you, seem to forget that. For most of our history, it was assumed that government's purpose was to set the conditions that allowed people to provide for themselves, not to do the actual provisioning. There are tremendous advantages to that arrangement. When we get in a situation. About 1 in 7 Californians use SNAP. The War on Poverty, started 60 years ago, was supposed to lift people out of poverty so they wouldn't need food assistance ("A hand up, not a handout"). Perhaps it's time to reconsider whether social welfare spending is actually achieving its goals or perhaps we might need a different approach.
This isn't about Fair share. This is about a functioning civilization that services and improves the lives of a social species. Because of human beings aren't a social species then we are eventually going to go extinct. You can't have nuclear bombs lying around with a non-social species.
We have two different visions of what a civilization can be. My view is one where people live happy, productive, and independent lives, free to make their own life choices and responsible to themselves for the consequences of those choices. Life is complicated, dynamic, and unpredictable so I think we need millions of daily experiments to figure out what works for each individual person. I'm quite confident that most people, over time, will figure out a life path which works well for them, and that you and I can't figure that out for them. I also think there will be a very small number of people for whom they're never going to be able to support themselves and as compassionate, sociable people, we ought to provide for them. I expect I think that number is much, much smaller than you do. Finally, I think there are a large number of people in a grey area, where they can't really provide for themselves now but quite reasonably could given the right support and incentives. These are the hand up/handout people referenced above. The Clinton era welfare reforms really targetted updating social spending along those lines and that was, IMHO, a great move. We seem to have forgotten that approach.
You're thinking is basic, it is grounded in the thought processes of a 12 year old child who never grew up and hopefully you will eventually be in the minority. Because if not then we're about to Fermi paradox ourselves.
Let's keep personal insults out of this, although I assert you're the one with the naive attitude. "I want free stuff and I want mommy and daddy to pay for it" isn't especially mature or nuanced. At least I provided citations with data. Please do the same.
Learn some nuance, read some books especially some history books. Go start with A people's History of the United States. Maybe read some of what's senator Warren has written. The two income trap is a good start.
I minored in US history. I've read some of Senator Warren's writings and near as I can tell they're riddled with economic misunderstandings. But I'll also throw a recommendation at you, The Triumph of Economic Freedom by Senator and Doctor Phil Gramm (did you know Phil Gramm is a PhD Economist? I didn't.) and Professor Don Boudreaux.