You're referring to her taking advantage of social services, right? I don't think that's indicative of her values. Her values would be found in whether she votes for those social services to exist. But as long as they do, I wouldn't expect her to deprive herself. "Be the change you want to see in the world" is a nice motivational phrase, but it's not rational. A rational person would first change the world, and second, live in it. (I don't think people should be purely rational, but I don't knock them for it.)
For example if you vote for a candidate that promises higher taxes (on purpose, because you think it will work better), do you need to actually volunteer extra tax? I don't think anyone would call you a hypocrite in that circumstance.