Comment Lots of Assumptions There (Score 2) 60
discipline was harped on equal to academics... school is even operated more like a prison than an educational institution.
Has it occurred to you that these two things are related? That perhaps your demand for "discipline" is exactly what is pushing schools to become prison pipelines more than places for developing critical thinking skills?
None of the teachers have any level of professionalism anymore
What do you define as "professionalism"? Teachers of old that often were not credentialed to teach the subjects they were assigned to teach, and could be verbally abusive if not even physically abusive (hitting with rulers or spanking was at one time common!) to enforce "discipline"? Maybe the concept of professionalism in a classroom is shifting, and that's a good thing.
My kids know everything about their teachers, first and last names
The horror to learn that teachers are humans, and humans have names!
their dogs names
Did your class never have a pet turtle or anything? What if the dog is there as a therapy dog, or an assistance dog for a disabled teacher and/or student in the classroom, should the students never learn the dog's name and pretend it doesn't exist?
their super special pronouns
I'm going to go out on a limb here, based on you saying "my wife" later in the post, that most likely you identify as a man. Would you enjoy being called "she" or "ma'am"? Even if you would laugh it off and say hey, it's a mistake, no worries, it's still something you'd correct, right?, and not simply let them keep calling you ma'am? Let's say your name is Mike but someone every day called you Joe or Sally, would you just say "hey, they decided that's what they want to call me, fine", or would you insist that they use Mike? If the other person started screaming back at you saying "YOU LOOK LIKE A SALLY TO ME SO I'M GOING TO KEEP CALLING YOU SALLY, NOT YOUR SUPER SPECIAL MIKE NAME", they'd be kind of an asshole, right?
Asking people to use a particular pronoun when addressing them is not different from asking folks to use a preferred name or nickname. It's a courtesy to another human being, to show respect. You were just ranting about "professionalism", it's professional to show respect and teach students to show respect for others by using preferred names and pronouns when speaking to adults. Why is this such a problem? How does that interfere with education in any way?
The level of rigor in the classes my kids are taking is at least 2 grade levels below what it was when I was in school
Is the rigor different, or are kids simply learning different things than 30 years ago because the world has changed? So 30 years ago was 1994. The Internet was young and not really known to the general public. Windows 3.1 days, Windows 95 wasn't out yet, so home PCs were still not as user friendly and not as widespread. Netscape Navigator, one of the first browsers to get wide use, didn't come out until the end of 1994.
It should be pretty obvious that students today are growing up in a far different world that requires different skills. A lot more emphasis on things that are useful for computer tasks for example; computer literacy, programming which means far more emphasis on certain kinds of math and logic beyond the class education of geometry and basic algebra. I know there was a freakout with Common Core, but a lot of the changes in math for example are exactly designed for this purpose, the old curriculum methods of teaching arithmetic and algebra do not teach the skills needed to keep up with modern science and engineering especially computer science which require more abstract algebra methods to recognize patterns in operations not just numbers. With access to Wikipedia, maybe students don't need to memorize random factoids as much as know how to use them, so need to develop critical thinking skills. With computerized forms everywhere, maybe the need to learn handwriting is diminished; not to say it isn't still important to learn a bit, but cursive is outdated and even hand printing is not very necessary in many professional spaces, it's almost more important to know how to use common UI paradigms, swipe typing on a virtual keyboard, or learning a real keyboard for more complex professional tasks.
This is of course a complex topic that is still in the process of being debated and worked out because of how rapidly technology has changed. But this should illustrate that what you consider "rigor" may not necessarily apply anymore for kids trying to keep up in a 21st-century computer-dominated global economy. Shouldn't be surprised educational curriculum looks different and doesn't cover the exact same list of topics you saw 30 years ago.
All those masters degrees and P.hD hours were a waste of time
How do you come to the conclusion those degrees were a waste of time? Because you personally didn't want to study those topics? That's fine. Not everyone needs to be an expert on the same things. It's better when we all specialize differently and then collaborate.
since a lot of them chose public education to get their university paid for
Ah I see why you think it was a waste of time now. You don't really understand why many people become teachers, often at cost of huge pay cuts (diminished life time earnings compared to going into corporate jobs) and long work hours while school is in session.
We need to bring back judging people and heaping scorn
I have the feeling you wouldn't like it if other folks judged you and heaped scorn on you for having these strong beliefs about education; why do you want to do it to others?