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Journal jawtheshark's Journal: She is gone. 24

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After a few weeks of coldness, she dumped me.

Yes, she dumped me. Distance.... Main reason, and the insight that she could never leave the US and what she has there. Me coming to the US is no option, because it would change me, she says.

I am broken hearted. I don't know what to do. I had calculated her into my life.

I need to talk, yet I cannot speak....

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  • I'm really sorry.

    And I have no idea what else to say.

    Take care man. And remember, this is what beer was invented for. And icecream.

    • Beer...
      Yes...

      Wine actually... I'm going to be drunk beyond belief tonight.

      • Good idea for a few days. But then, time to get over it (the drinking, not the larger 'it'). But I guess I don't need to tell a Europeen [sic] about responsible drinking. That's one area you seem to have definately bested the US on.

        Kudos on making it work as long as it did. I've had much shorter (distance wise and time wise) relationships break up.
        • Resonsible drinking?

          Sure... I crashed my first car because of that. (Meaning drop-dead drunk... not knowing where I was....)

          Yes, responsible drinking in Europe... Dream on.

          • So you people are a bunch of drunken, racist, pederasts... Kinda like Texas in that regard...

            Seriously though, if you've done it once, do you need a bunch of nattering from me to tell you not to do it again? Thought not.
            • drunken... sure... Racist? Me? Are you insulting me? Pederast? That's pedofilian, right? Or gay? I don't remember... two bottles of wine doens't help.....

              Once is enough..... The only reason I would now enter my TT would be to commit suicide...

              • I meant the collective 'you'. My biggest complaint about English is the lack of a second person plural pronoun.


                • I meant the collective 'you'. My biggest complaint about English is the lack of a second person plural pronoun.

                  Lack? Look, just 'cause some people don't use it doesn't mean `y'all' doesn't exist.
  • It hurts to hear news like that. It's never easy.

    I'm probably not the best person to chat with, but you can email me [mailto]. I have MSN Messenger & ICQ also.
    • Thank you for your offer. SamTheButcher was kindly there for me.... Not that I didn't want to talk to you, but someone, anyone, was good...
      • Thank you for your offer.
        You're welcome.
        SamTheButcher was kindly there for me....
        That's good news.
        Not that I didn't want to talk to you, but someone, anyone, was good...
        No worries. I totally understand. In face, I'd be willing to bet that he was a better choice. I'm not good dealing with these things.
  • We've all been there.
    Besides, it's just warming you up for the next heaviness.
    It's nothing you can't handle. Small consolation.

    Oh, and wife's in other room so I'll write it now: It's the bitchez that getchaz. Better click submit before she sees it.

    Word up.
  • n/t, 'cause there isn't much else that can be said.
  • If it's any consolation long-distance relationships are very hard to make work for any length of time.
  • sorry dude.

    I spent two effing years in a LD relationship.

    All I gotta say is be glad it didn't work out relatively soon in your relationship.

    Its a sad but true statement. Absence might make the heart grow fonder, but it also makes the bond grow a lot weaker.

    Give it time, it's all you can do.
  • I'm sorry to hear that. I liked your relationship, sort of..

    Me coming to the US is no option, because it would change me, she says.
    Girls think in such a strange way.
  • things get better. i'm sorry to hear something that made you so happy is now having the opposite effect. i've been dumped and i agree that it sucks. but after some distance, i realized they were all right for dumping me. i didn't belong with any of those people. i hope you feel the same way in time.

    take care. post a new JE if you need more people to talk to.
  • Hang in there.
  • I too had a LD relationship go that way...and for similar reasons...

    All I can really say is that it SUCKS...but no need to tell you that I'm sure. If you were in the states, I would make sure to take you out for a long night (and morning) of drinking with the guys to allow you to vent. Venting always helps...

    In the meantime, enjoy your wine. I'll drink a few for ya tonight...

    best wishes,
    frozen
    • If you were in the states

      Uhm... well, if I were in the states I wouldn't have had the problem in the first place ;-)

      Oh, well... 2:20... Not sleepy, 4 beers, and needing to get up in 5 hours. Oh, well... They can fire me.... It's not as if it really matters now ;-)

  • I am so behind on my /. reading... I just got your JE. I am so sorry my friend. Know that I am here (if only in the virtual sense) for you. There really is nothing I can say or do that can make you feel any better about your loss.

    Drink some wine and play some good music. Take a walk and breathe deeply. And know that in the not so distant future, your heart will be mended.

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