You pretty much all know what that subject line means, don't you?
Due to factors out of my power (Read: Mother in Law said things I told to her, but didn't want to address yet to my wife.... Talk about tact...), I had to address the issue of our relationship. Originally, I wanted to wait with that until she at least started therapy and was at least partially ok physically. I was (and am still) willing to give her a chance. She wouldn't listen and said she couldn't live with me anymore.
Fair enough... I'm such an inconsiderate asshole, I wouldn't want to live with me... Oh, wait... That's not even remotely true. However, she thinks it's all my fault.
Doesn't help she refused treatment by the psychiatrist... That was the condition sine qua non for me anyway.
Anyway... 5 years of my life down the drain. Anyone needs a "slightly used shark, heart is broken, for the rest okay"?