Comment Re:grade crazy (Score 1) 136
Who you know is as important as what you know, in most parts of life.
Did you want actually useful advice that might lead to the outcome your daughter hopes for or were you wanting some bromide about hard work leading to great things or at least being its own reward?
Ultimately grades are somewhat subjective. If you know your professor enough that they are able to determine you actually do know your stuff but were just very sick the day of the quiz, is it really cheating for them to say give you some extra credit opportunity? That won't happen if your class is a 150 student lecture though, just as a practical matter.
Trying to hold others back is wrong, but taking maxium advantage of every opportunity that comes your way, like say going to good-private-university if your parents can send you, is what winners do!