"won't tell you the pain they go through just to go on a trip"?
Dude, they'll outright tell you just that left and right. Less than a minute on google, bing, duckduck, or whatever will turn up entire videologs of trips. Some good, some bad. If you're not hearing about their trip experiences, you're not listening.
The ones with good experiences will rave about not needing to stop at gas stations, the lower cost, the power and quiet, etc...
The ones with bad experiences will lament broken or missing charging stations, loss of range towing*, that sort of thing.
But ever consider that most of them, if their EV purchase was well planned their experience overwhelmingly good, as expected for a 'proponent', that they just don't experience pain to "just go on a trip"? They might have a Tesla and thus access to the Tesla charging network even before it opened to everybody. The Tesla itself knows where the chargers are, plug in the destination and it'll pick the fastest route including charging stations.
As for the solid state battery, this is like saying that EV Semis aren't coming because the startup Nikola turned out to be a fraud, despite Tesla, Freightliner, Volvo, Mercedes-Benz, Kenworth, Peterbilt, and BYD all getting into the action. This was ONE relatively small attempt at fraud. Toyota, Volkswagen, BMW, and more are all working on solid state batteries as well. Donut labs is a peanut player in comparison.
*Thinking on this, first, I've experienced a 50% loss of range towing with my ICE truck. So some range loss is to be expected. Second, it occurs to me that somebody running around in a truck with a massive 8 cylinder engine has way more power than they need for just the truck. ICE engines tend to be at their most efficient around 70-80% load for the RPM. So a big towing truck may not see that much range loss because they were operating inefficiently as just the truck, the range loss towing is partially hidden by hitting a more efficient