Comment Re:Good (Score 1) 112
The dropping marriage rate has little if anything to do with marriage being particularly unfair to one of the partners and more to do with the absence of the social pressure of decades and centuries past. The children of the 60s/70s didn't grow up believing that marriage was essential, and didn't require it of their children (at least not at the level of prior generations). What we're seeing now is much closer to the "voluntary" marriage rate, though we're going to need to adjust our culture to basically treat marriage as just another lifestyle choice of some minority of the population. Most adults at any one time will not be married, in fact the majority probably never will get married, that's their choice. Far more of us (all people) are free to pick a path in life rather than having it decided by tradition, that's a good thing in my book.
We also have a legacy of women being socialized to believe they are not adults until they are married. This is part of a whole culture encouraging girls to "grow up to be princesses with a dream wedding" instead of say, an astronaut or a ship's captain. It was still a strong part of the culture when millennials were children, the Alphas might be spared the burden. Wedding costs have become absolutely ridiculous as a result of this.
As for the impact on De Beers, who cares? They built an empire on blood, lies, and theft. I hope anyone working there feels properly compensated for selling their soul.
We also have a legacy of women being socialized to believe they are not adults until they are married. This is part of a whole culture encouraging girls to "grow up to be princesses with a dream wedding" instead of say, an astronaut or a ship's captain. It was still a strong part of the culture when millennials were children, the Alphas might be spared the burden. Wedding costs have become absolutely ridiculous as a result of this.
As for the impact on De Beers, who cares? They built an empire on blood, lies, and theft. I hope anyone working there feels properly compensated for selling their soul.