Supporting end-users I have definitely seen the "laptop wakes up in bag and suffocates itself" scenario a bunch.
I've seen that too, but the vast majority of the laptop users I deal with only have one so they can move about the house.
The "Shut Down" option no longer shutting down creates other confusions as well. If you want to completely shut down the OS and reload everything from disk, the only way to do that now in Windows is the "Restart" button. "Shut Down" and powering back on is no longer the same. If you've been doing that, try running "systeminfo" and looking at the date Windows booted. You will be surprised.
Sure, but that ultimately isn't overly important to how most people use their computer. That is, it's generally better for the computer to keep itself up to date in the background than to expect them to ever take the time to do it themselves. Having them restart the computer usually has less friction than having them run updates.
Ultimately, adding the option seems like an overall benefit. Leave it up to the distro for the default, or have a setting on install.
Basically, on a "full-fledged" computer, if I hit sleep, it should sleep. If I want it to be super available, I just leave it there, CPU will get to his lowest power state to do basically nothing, screens will turn off, fans, will ramp down (assuming it's not burning summer), and there will be no chance for confusion. This would consume more power, but probably not that much. When idle, a modern computer goes very low in that regard.
That is your preference, and nothing wrong with it. However, a lot of people would have a different opinion. From my experience providing support to the public, most people just hit the power button and let the computer figure it out. I'm not saying there wouldn't be exceptions or problems, but for the average person it works well enough and they can't be bothered to care.
As for power usage, I don't have first hand numbers to go off of. However, consensus is that modern standby is much lower than idle. The internet seems to tell me "idle" would be anywhere from 10(30)W to 50(100)W. I'm seeing modern standby in the 2-10W range. One person's anecdote for their Dell XPS 15 9530 was 40W idle with screen off, and 10W on modern standby. It's up to the individual to decide if they care, but local power costs would likely factor in. I have fairly cheap power, though the price does keep creeping up.
It could be useful for embedded systems, and maybe something like a smartphone. But for a general-purpose, traditional computer, it would be pretty useless
The average person probably wouldn't see too much difference between the two, in terms of what they're used for. I'm not saying it's ultimately worth it to me, but I can see the general appeal (potential issues aside) of having everything updated in the background. It's not a "linux purist" feature, but a feature that is probably beneficial for user adoption.
You mentioned Tesla only
In my original message I mentioned Tesla as a directly comparative example for EV. At the point where you joined the conversation, I had already mentioned they're not the only company receiving subsidies. Specifically, " It's not a situation unique to them."
And you didn't explain why Chinese OEMs should be obliged to enter the market unsubsidized while US OEMs have, by your own admission, received subsidies.
I never said they should, or shouldn't, be allowed to enter the US market... subsidized or not. In fact, my very first sentence specifically said I wasn't expressing a stance on it. The only point I made is that the free market isn't operating as a proper free market due to subsidies, and that adding yet another subsidized player wouldn't suddenly fix it.
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Are you going to ignore the fact that I mentioned it happens with US auto makers as well?
A "much-needed move" would be to allow BYD cars to be sold here and let the free market economics (that conservatives ostensibly claim to love) sort everything out.
I'm not going to argue about the merit of allowing BYD or not. This is only about free market economics. BYD is heavily subsidized, and their entry in the market would skew any possible free market economics. That said, it isn't like Tesla didn't directly or indirectly receive subsidies. It might look closer to a free market if everyone has their thumb on the scale, but it wouldn't be.
You Can Just Say No.
Their question was "What choice do they realistically have?" The key word is realistically. Yes, there is a choice. There just isn't a viable reason to say no.
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