Comment Re:French father here... (Score 1) 144
Hello,
I am french, I have 2 kids, now 19 (still a kid?) and 17.
On one hand, I am 100% happy to see that law.
I see way to many people, including my kids (and wife) "suck in" endless scrolling, harassed using these systems.
Furthermore, I see how these systems are designed to "suck you in". And there is almost nothing you can do to fight it (except not go there). Education, training will NOT help you win against these systems who are run by professionals, using psychiatrist, endless A/B testing and resources. If you go on these networks, they will suck more and more of your time, energy, turn you into "human batteries" (aka Matrix) to feed themselves.
On the other side,
- They can also be great tools, blocking access to them can deprive kids from great opportunity. My 17 YO has been running a youtube channel for 3 years now (so, since she was 14), has over 50K subscribers (!) and is using it to bolster her "business" selling hand crafted masks. She has learned so much about so many things through this that it would have been a waste to not let her do it!
- Mandatory age verification will be an imposition on all of us and reduce liberties for everyone
- These are the tools of the area and kids will need to learn how to use them. Blocking them from doing so will render them less effective later.
At the end I think that what should have hapend is that the law should have required these companies to stop being so agressive in trying to lock and keep people in, and also have some good mechanism for controlling "bad speach" (as a self repost?).... The lawmakers look at it, but it was judged unconstitutional and so they went with age verification.
Cyrille
Just because *you* are benefiting doesn't make social media any better. In fact, it makes it worse for everyone else.
That youtube channel that helps your daughter with her business is doing the same thing you don't want others to do to your daughters - tricking them into buying stuff they don't need or want using peer pressure, pushing (disguised) ads, and selling a product not by quality but emotional measures.
The great opportunity offered to kids is to try and get on top of the exploitation pile that is social media. That is an opportunity that society would be better without: our kids would all be happier and our society would be happier with fewer people exploiting their neighbors and trying to hoard as much as they can. If this had been a purely technical experience I would have no quarrel, but social media is built on emotional engagement. Learning the ropes there is an emotionally scarring journey that develops those that pursue it via addictive channels into insecure narcissists that chase approval, or weak-minded followers that never develop themselves individually. Just look at what the US has become; how they vote and how they deal with unwelcome facts or contradicting opinions. I can't imagine any benefit from social media being worth such a price.
Finally, there is absolutely nothing these "tools" provide that cannot be provided better elsewhere. The design of these products do not help society at all. It only helps exploiting it.
But you are right - they shouldn't have blocked social media for kids; they should have blocked social media period.