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Journal TechnoLust's Journal: Taking Sol's advice: laying off "dating" for a bit 34

That pretty much says it all. I'm disappointed with the kind of girls I meet around here. They seem to only want one thing, and that's NOT a meaningful long term relationship. I know some guys reading this are wondering what my problem is, but I'm just not that kind of guy. I'm just can't do the whole casual sex thing. Now I'm still going to hang out with my friends and stuff, but I'm going to be going to the lake on my boat a lot soon, and on rainy days, I'll be playing Halo2 and DDR. I just need to sort some things out in my head and take a break from all the drama.
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Taking Sol's advice: laying off "dating" for a bit

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  • I might have to start reading SD's stuff if she is so pack full of wisdom.
  • You really are in love with me! I knew it.
  • I'll take all those women of suspect morality off your hands for you. I'm not looking for a long term relationship (unless "long-term" is code for "until you can get a taxi in the morning") so it's perfect.

    Besides ... that's what friends are for. :)

    -Ab
    • You keep your ID in your shoe, and always go to their place. Also, always take your shoes off right when you get in the door, so you know where to retrieve 'em when you make your exit.

      Of course, you always give a fake name (they can't verify by going through your wallet, 'cause your ID is in your shoe :)

  • by FortKnox ( 169099 ) * on Wednesday April 27, 2005 @02:51PM (#12362302) Homepage Journal
    It's not the "girls that live around here", its the "places and girls you are trying to pick up." You are going to bars and picking up bartenders and chicks at parties. Lemmie tell you.... 80% of those chicks just want a good time.

    You're looking for love in all the wrong places, dude...
    • i really would agree with this. looking for meaning where non exists in the first place is truly an exercise in futility.

      of course wtf do i know?

      yer a good man tl... hang in there.

    • Well, I'm glad someone said it. :-)

      Glad you finally have your priorities in order:

      1. Halo 2
      2. DDR
      3. Girls

      Welcome back to geekdom.

    • Ok, but put church and bible study in your list too. Yeah, I'm still going to Bible Study, and the girls in there that aren't in a relationship are looking for a little action too. I'm telling you man, there's something in the water around here.
    • Although anymore its hard for a poor guy to get a date except by going to those places, looking for girls who are also looking to hook up. I mean, I watch other girls and the way they treat a poor guy who strikes up a conversation with them in the market or at the park, and my heart aches for the poor fellow. Anymore, a kind comment because someone thinks you're cute or sees a potential common interest is met with the "creep" look.
      So, I notice that more and more of my gentlemen friends are looking at ba
      • *"club-hoppping chicks"
        *"tough world"
        *"The women are either rude and nonreceptive to polite gestures, or assume you're just trying to get into their pants." --> "The women are either rude and nonreceptive to polite gestures, assume you're just trying to get into their pants, or only want you to get into their pants."

        Darn submit button.

      • Thanks for that. At least SOMEONE decided to be supportive instead of harping on the mistakes I've made.
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    • I'm kinda with Sam. I realize it probably seems like all I do in your JE's is attacking you TL...but on the other hand: Judge a man by his actions, not his words. You can't really say it's "not you" as you've just done it. You might wish it "wasn't you" to sleep around, but it was you, and perhaps is you.

      Like FK said, it's not really fair to say that it's "the girls around here". I realize as a married man I might be out of touch with recent developements in the area of sex. But last I checked it took at

    • Yeah Sammy. Weren't you enjoying NOT READING his exploits before? ;) (Sorry TL) I'd sort of just skim through: "She did this and this piece of ass did that and I made out with this and that...fdasijo fjealf jfaeowoeiqpq234 3jfeaj".

      Let's get TL onto some good music now. He doesn't have to listen to shit to impress the chickies anymore. I think you're most qualified, although I could ship him some GC, TSR, etc. :)

      Oh, and TL? Good music is a whole lot more than just U2, so don't even go there girlfriend
    • Heh... not like he was forcing you to read them....

      More of a currious fascination sort of thing... Why else do people write and read journals?

      jason
  • i'll send her your way?

    i was gonna say if you want to read bible concurrently, i'm game, but then i saw the comment about bible study, so i'm-a just shut the book and sneak out quietly...

    *closes bible and sneaks out quietly*

    er, does this mean you're in for a diablo game some afternoon?
  • You realize that the rule of dating is that as soon as you decide to "lay off" dating/not look for a relationship, you will find someone.

    Right?

    (sorry if someone said this above, I didn't read the comments)
    • You know that once you know this Murphy is invoked. You just jynxed him, that's some evil ju-ju. ;)
      • And your counter-invocation countered the evil ju-ju invoked by her invocation, thereby balancing the scales. Unfortunately for our plucky hero, I've gone and tilted them back.
        • Damn it, I thought my plan had succeeded. I'll have to invoke the evil eye to ward me of all the ju-ju. Sorry TL, I'm triing to save you but am being thwarded by evil forces. ;)

          We could go on for ever... ;)

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